"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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What kind of services work on improving your looks?

Zircon916

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I know this is a sorta strange question and maybe somewhat afc but are there any professional services out there that work on improving someones looks through maybe hairstyle/makeup/clothing style? Like the services that help models before a photo shoot?

I'm a pretty decent looking guy, maybe above average but no where near a knockout. I know my way around a gym and am a pretty fit guy (5'7, 145lb). In no way am I absolutely ripped or shredded, but I got pretty decent definition.

I'm really looking to change my entire wardrobe, hair style, get rid of my random blemishes so I look model-like smooth. So are there any services that can help me out in this aspect? I don't even know what to look under in the phone book.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Zircon916

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Err I didn't mean specific places, I meant what type of places do these services?
 

oakraiderz2

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Uhh...what the hell? Go to the store and try stuff on.
 

Rex Man

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Look through a magazine that serves your particular tastes (Men's Health, GQ, etc.) and start stealing some styles.

Remember: Good Artists Copy, Great Artists Steal ~ Pablo Picasso
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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slickaz

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heard of google? its this place that searchs stuff for you..yeh it works too....
try searching for male stylists in your area.

ps: you wouldnt find one person does the whole list of changes for you.
you're stylist will reccomend wardrobe ideas.
a good hair stylist can reccoment matching hair cuts for you.
a skin specialist can reccomend creams etc for your skin.

or call queer eye for a straight guy
 

david99

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Personal stylist may be what you are looking for :rockon:
 

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oakraiderz2 said:
Uhh...what the hell? Go to the store and try stuff on.
It's a valid question, IMO.

I don't have any sense or taste for fashion, matching clothing, trends, etc. When I go shopping by myself, I buy things that are comfortable and that *I* think I look good in.

When you're starting from scratch, it can be difficult to build a decent wardrobe considering you're buying lots of stuff that has to go well with other stuff.
 
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