I don't want to speak for RangerMike here but I assume he didn't mean that how men make her feel and what men can do for her are the ONLY thing women care about in life. Maybe I'm wrong and he will correct me. My interpretation was that when it comes to women interacting with men, they care only about how the man makes her feel and what the man can do for her. But I'm curious, when it comes to what a man wants from a woman specifically, is it any different?
This section right here above.
And yes Rangermike can most definitely speak for himself. I was compelled by your very good question.
In the clip from above, again you ask two good questions. The first one, I will answer based on what I know and experienced through observation. Women care about one other thing. Their offspring. This is pretty deep. But anything that doesn’t contribute to their personal survival or that of her offspring, doesn’t really exist. Men are not registering as individuals. They register as tools to obtain their imperative.
Men are different in that we think conceptually. We can extrapolate the end game of actions. A woman will ruin a diamond to obtain a piece of shiny brass if it evokes her emotional state of pleasure.
A man can calculate risks. A woman cannot or will not calculate this. Risk is not in their encapsulated solipsism.
A man has a cycloramic view of life. We will invest in the cycloramic, all encompassing view. His emotions can and do become secondary. A woman would never do this.
So the idea that we operate solely upon how a woman makes us feel is an error. We can and do sometimes but it is cycloramic and encompassing of many different things. Sure we can default to base when it serves us but then there are failures everywhere. Especially those men who are feminized by social convention and upbringing.