"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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What is your Success Rate?

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Just curious to know (for those who actually get out in the field)

What is your success rate?

If you ask a girl out on a date what is the ratio of getting the date versus the girl flaking and outright rejection

For those who don't know what their ratio is - start finding out.

Ask out 10 girls and post your results.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Once you truely understand the principles of becoming a Don Juan, your success is pretty high. Why? Because you only go after girls that show interest in you. I think its unfair to have a percentage success rate. I'd say once you get good at the game your success will always be relatively high....:D


Happy hunting.




PIMP
 

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i wouldn't know. im not much of a 'percentage' guy but when i do ask for numbers, using the email first then # method, so far, ive gotten 100%. cool enough.

and ive been thinking, everybody's walking around all flustered about a girl but whenever you do grab your balls and talk to her, you begin to wonder, 'what's all the anxiety about?'
 

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Ok how about going back to your diaries and posting the results of the last 10 girls you asked out.

Or are you saying that you achieved 100% success rate?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I usually don't ask girls out on dates, usually just meet them at a club/party and have sex or some lame thing like getting together to watch some movie or whatever then do something seuxal...

But as for the girls I have asked out for dates or simular I've had 100% success, no flakes at all. I've also never gotten a fake number.
 

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I don't know my last 10, but here are my totals:

Numbers:

14 out of 21 - successful number closes

4 out of 14 - dates

1 out of 4 - I NEXTed after one date
2 out of 4 - I NEXTed after two/three dates
1 out of 4 - I got flaked on after one date
 

DJ Alejandro

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Originally posted by The Dominated1
Or are you saying that you achieved 100% success rate?
read it again. i admit i rarely approach. [im still working on it.] but when i do, USING THE EMAIL FIRST method, ive had a 100% success rate.
 

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Originally posted by DJ Alejandro
read it again. i admit i rarely approach. [im still working on it.] but when i do, USING THE EMAIL FIRST method, ive had a 100% success rate.
Hey, baby... what's your email?

:rolleyes:

Maybe one day you and me can get together and have cybersex...

:rolleyes:
 

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You can study percentages as much as you want but one thing is for certain.

"All I know is that I don't score on 100% of the shots I never take." - Wayne Gretzky when asked to comment on his shooting percentage after scoring 3 goals on 4 shots.

The moral of the story is forget about your success rate. Just take the shot.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Originally posted by The Dominated1
Just curious to know (for those who actually get out in the field)

What is your success rate?

If you ask a girl out on a date what is the ratio of getting the date versus the girl flaking and outright rejection

For those who don't know what their ratio is - start finding out.

Ask out 10 girls and post your results.
Let's see... take Pi, divide by five, add 1/25, take that add the root of 50, multiply by 365, 4 hours a week... uhhh... let me get a calculater.

Hmmm... the answer is 0.
 
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Originally posted by DJ Alejandro
i wouldn't know. im not much of a 'percentage' guy but when i do ask for numbers, using the email first then # method, so far, ive gotten 100%. cool enough.

and ive been thinking, everybody's walking around all flustered about a girl but whenever you do grab your balls and talk to her, you begin to wonder, 'what's all the anxiety about?'
If you're grabbin your balls too hard before you talk to the girl, you're probably thinking OOOOOWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWW!

Then... man, I hope my voice isn't that high and squeeky when I talk to her...
:D
 

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Originally posted by Trickster_guy_2001
If you're grabbin your balls too hard before you talk to the girl, you're probably thinking OOOOOWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWW!

Then... man, I hope my voice isn't that high and squeeky when I talk to her...
:D
uh.. ok.
 

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My success rate isn't the best (but it IS there,) and I actually try, which is more than I can say for most of the guys I know.

That, and the "getting some" stories are usually not half as funny as the "getting turned down" stories anyways.
 
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Originally posted by DJ Alejandro
uh.. ok.
He was just saying how everyone should grab their balls and go talk to a girl. I thought it'd be pretty damn funny if there were a bunch of guys who took that literally.

So I was just making a joke about those who might... lol.

Ok... never mind.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Well....

I thought you were funny, Trickster!

Don't feel bad :cool:
 

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99% phone number (this is with NO street pick ups though... need to work on that)

80% get the date

20-30% of set dates end up flaking
 

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Trickster, no offense taken. dont worry.
 
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