"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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What is your Success Rate?

The Dominated1

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Just curious to know (for those who actually get out in the field)

What is your success rate?

If you ask a girl out on a date what is the ratio of getting the date versus the girl flaking and outright rejection

For those who don't know what their ratio is - start finding out.

Ask out 10 girls and post your results.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Once you truely understand the principles of becoming a Don Juan, your success is pretty high. Why? Because you only go after girls that show interest in you. I think its unfair to have a percentage success rate. I'd say once you get good at the game your success will always be relatively high....:D


Happy hunting.




PIMP
 

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i wouldn't know. im not much of a 'percentage' guy but when i do ask for numbers, using the email first then # method, so far, ive gotten 100%. cool enough.

and ive been thinking, everybody's walking around all flustered about a girl but whenever you do grab your balls and talk to her, you begin to wonder, 'what's all the anxiety about?'
 

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Ok how about going back to your diaries and posting the results of the last 10 girls you asked out.

Or are you saying that you achieved 100% success rate?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I usually don't ask girls out on dates, usually just meet them at a club/party and have sex or some lame thing like getting together to watch some movie or whatever then do something seuxal...

But as for the girls I have asked out for dates or simular I've had 100% success, no flakes at all. I've also never gotten a fake number.
 

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I don't know my last 10, but here are my totals:

Numbers:

14 out of 21 - successful number closes

4 out of 14 - dates

1 out of 4 - I NEXTed after one date
2 out of 4 - I NEXTed after two/three dates
1 out of 4 - I got flaked on after one date
 

DJ Alejandro

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Originally posted by The Dominated1
Or are you saying that you achieved 100% success rate?
read it again. i admit i rarely approach. [im still working on it.] but when i do, USING THE EMAIL FIRST method, ive had a 100% success rate.
 

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Originally posted by DJ Alejandro
read it again. i admit i rarely approach. [im still working on it.] but when i do, USING THE EMAIL FIRST method, ive had a 100% success rate.
Hey, baby... what's your email?

:rolleyes:

Maybe one day you and me can get together and have cybersex...

:rolleyes:
 

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You can study percentages as much as you want but one thing is for certain.

"All I know is that I don't score on 100% of the shots I never take." - Wayne Gretzky when asked to comment on his shooting percentage after scoring 3 goals on 4 shots.

The moral of the story is forget about your success rate. Just take the shot.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Originally posted by The Dominated1
Just curious to know (for those who actually get out in the field)

What is your success rate?

If you ask a girl out on a date what is the ratio of getting the date versus the girl flaking and outright rejection

For those who don't know what their ratio is - start finding out.

Ask out 10 girls and post your results.
Let's see... take Pi, divide by five, add 1/25, take that add the root of 50, multiply by 365, 4 hours a week... uhhh... let me get a calculater.

Hmmm... the answer is 0.
 
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Originally posted by DJ Alejandro
i wouldn't know. im not much of a 'percentage' guy but when i do ask for numbers, using the email first then # method, so far, ive gotten 100%. cool enough.

and ive been thinking, everybody's walking around all flustered about a girl but whenever you do grab your balls and talk to her, you begin to wonder, 'what's all the anxiety about?'
If you're grabbin your balls too hard before you talk to the girl, you're probably thinking OOOOOWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWW!

Then... man, I hope my voice isn't that high and squeeky when I talk to her...
:D
 

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Originally posted by Trickster_guy_2001
If you're grabbin your balls too hard before you talk to the girl, you're probably thinking OOOOOWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWW!

Then... man, I hope my voice isn't that high and squeeky when I talk to her...
:D
uh.. ok.
 

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My success rate isn't the best (but it IS there,) and I actually try, which is more than I can say for most of the guys I know.

That, and the "getting some" stories are usually not half as funny as the "getting turned down" stories anyways.
 
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Originally posted by DJ Alejandro
uh.. ok.
He was just saying how everyone should grab their balls and go talk to a girl. I thought it'd be pretty damn funny if there were a bunch of guys who took that literally.

So I was just making a joke about those who might... lol.

Ok... never mind.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Well....

I thought you were funny, Trickster!

Don't feel bad :cool:
 

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99% phone number (this is with NO street pick ups though... need to work on that)

80% get the date

20-30% of set dates end up flaking
 

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Trickster, no offense taken. dont worry.
 
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