"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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What is your success rate with women?

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Scars

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I run anti-dump, a long with a spice of my own game. So my ratio is pretty high.

Meaning, I only approach girls I know are already attracted, and I'm very intuitive about picking up on IOIs.

Eye contact. Trying to always be in close proximity. Laughs at everything I say. Shuts up whenever I speak. Will talk loudly in order to get my attention etc..

Don't ever cold approach too much anymore. To much BS, and when I do, the girl has usually already given me an IOI or I don't even bother. Creeper game's not my thing.

-Scars
 

Vice

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Lucifero said:
Out of all the women I've ever approached, mines is terrible for some reason...how about yours?
Lucifero, the reason may have something to do with your attitude, dude.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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TheAsianLoverReturns

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I **** 25-30% of the women I go out with.

The women I don't f*ck are women that want to string me out for dates because they see me as a potential provider.

I kick those b*tches to a curb. It's a poor investment of my time, energy, and money to go out with a b*tch for 1-3 months for the possibility of p*ssy.
 

Lucifero

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Vice said:
Lucifero, the reason may have something to do with your attitude, dude.
Nah, I'm pretty Awesome.

Nice looking, muscular, confident, funny, intelligent, invincible, flexable, dont give a **** about rejection-flakes-rudeness, etc.

Even with all of that, my record is terrible. I dont give a ****, but I'm just telling the truth...I also approach a lot of women and I have more numbers than I can call (My avalible free-time is limited)...:woo:
 

The Mad Ghost

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Lucifero said:
Nah, I'm pretty Awesome.

Nice looking, muscular, confident, funny, intelligent, invincible, flexable, dont give a **** about rejection-flakes-rudeness, etc.

Even with all of that, my record is terrible. I dont give a ****, but I'm just telling the truth...I also approach a lot of women and I have more numbers than I can call (My avalible free-time is limited)...:woo:
okay man.
 

Sir Psycho Sexy

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About 10% of the time for sex.

Some guys are saying they only go after girls they know are attracted to them. If a girl is attracted to me I can get sex 100% of the time, just like everyone else should be able to do lol...
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Masculinity

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It's all about time management and selecting girls you see are interested in you. My success rate is about 80%
 

Vice

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Lucifero said:
Nah, I'm pretty Awesome.

Nice looking, muscular, confident, funny, intelligent, invincible, flexable, dont give a **** about rejection-flakes-rudeness, etc.

Even with all of that, my record is terrible. I dont give a ****, but I'm just telling the truth...I also approach a lot of women and I have more numbers than I can call (My avalible free-time is limited)...:woo:
Arrogance seems to be a factor. I just looked over a few of your other posts on this forum and I've found that most of your posts lack value.

What may turn girls, and many people off is an over inflated ego. I have the same problem. I've been working to humble myself.

Most of the characteristics you described are all external as well.

If all of those external values are true, as soon as you get over yourself, you will transcend to a new level.

Now I'm making alot of judgements and assumptions here about someone I've never met, based off imperfect things called the words that you write.

One of my own issues is having a sort of "god complex", where I'm always judging people and looking down on them, always thinking that I'm superior to everyone, and always being the guy that subtly argues about everything to prove how smart I am. It's caused people to not want to be my friend, never invite me places, and just cause me to be lonely. I recently got in trouble with the police for underage drinking because I had too much pride to call someone to help me and drive me home, and instead got pinched sleeping in my car.
 

Zarky

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The women I don't f*ck are women that want to string me out for dates because they see me as a potential provider.

I kick those b*tches to a curb. It's a poor investment of my time, energy, and money to go out with a b*tch for 1-3 months for the possibility of p*ssy.
The #1 Trick for men is to determine how "easy" a woman is. Once you get to the point that you can pull chicks more or less reliably, you must hone your skills so you can ask the right questions and make the right observations to tell you whether the girl is going to put out quickly or if she's going to string you along.

This is priority #1 for guys who have relatively tight game. Learn to recognize easy chicks. For me, if they don't put out on the first 'date' (or whatever other get-together you've arranged), then they're done.
 

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I don't count em..I just know that I'll have to approach more than I lay. I look for IOI's too
 

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I tend to throw too many fish back to get a limit. Smoking? pets? allergic to both and they won't be in my life.IF there is a bit of a slump going on-maybe I'd date them[but I usually toss them back. They always "assume" their feminine charms will change my mind] At 51, life is too short to waste time with a woman that won't work out.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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theanomaly

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I don't keep track of percentage rates but I have sex with about 3 or 4 new women a month. Not sure getting laid is a good way to measure success though. Lot's of the chics end up being more trouble than they're worth...drama wise that is.
 

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About 99%? But I don't pursue girls clearly not interested... Until I sense interest from them.

I go after girls who I sense are attracted and I ALWAYS shoot for casual sex. If you include girls who aren't attracted to me obviously not 99%, but I don't go after those so I don't count it.

Basically my style is, talk to her and tease her, etc, if I sense something, go for it (it always works out because I have spidey senses about a girl's interest in me). If I sense nothing, then I don't bother or sometimes they randomly become interested years later which is weird. Oh but maybe my "spidey senses" are **** after all because sometimes girls who seem to not really know I exist will literally out of the blue say they'd **** me (happened 3 times before) and I'll be thinking: "WTF?! Really?!"
 

BlackMack177

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this is kinda hard to say. I usually only pursue if I think a chick is into me, but my senses for that sort of thing seem to be mediocre at best. Sometimes I'll be teasing and having fun with a chick and i'll think she's interested only to get the cold shoulder after I try to take it further. This is usually from the hotter ones too which sucks....

so I guess i'd say if you just count the chicks who gave me the time of day, maybe about 70%

over all, including online messaging, i'd say less than 5% of the messages sent turned into anything (whether is be lays, dates, or just phone buddies)

I'm trying to work on my game. I like to think i'm pretty attractive (muscular, somewhat funny, and great personality (this is from other people), but i guess not so if I got such a low success rate. Maybe I should just work on reading signals of interest
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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