Packers2010
Master Don Juan
Lucifero said:lol, you scared *****.
Anyway, did you **** her? If not then you are 0-1 which equals 0%...
gee i forgot thats all there is in life.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Lucifero said:lol, you scared *****.
Anyway, did you **** her? If not then you are 0-1 which equals 0%...
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Lucifero, the reason may have something to do with your attitude, dude.Lucifero said:Out of all the women I've ever approached, mines is terrible for some reason...how about yours?
He's pulling OP's leg. SJC 100%? Yeah Okay Man.nismo-4 said:You must be a male model with a fat-ass bank account!
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Nah, I'm pretty Awesome.Vice said:Lucifero, the reason may have something to do with your attitude, dude.
okay man.Lucifero said:Nah, I'm pretty Awesome.
Nice looking, muscular, confident, funny, intelligent, invincible, flexable, dont give a **** about rejection-flakes-rudeness, etc.
Even with all of that, my record is terrible. I dont give a ****, but I'm just telling the truth...I also approach a lot of women and I have more numbers than I can call (My avalible free-time is limited)...:woo:
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Arrogance seems to be a factor. I just looked over a few of your other posts on this forum and I've found that most of your posts lack value.Lucifero said:Nah, I'm pretty Awesome.
Nice looking, muscular, confident, funny, intelligent, invincible, flexable, dont give a **** about rejection-flakes-rudeness, etc.
Even with all of that, my record is terrible. I dont give a ****, but I'm just telling the truth...I also approach a lot of women and I have more numbers than I can call (My avalible free-time is limited)...:woo:
The #1 Trick for men is to determine how "easy" a woman is. Once you get to the point that you can pull chicks more or less reliably, you must hone your skills so you can ask the right questions and make the right observations to tell you whether the girl is going to put out quickly or if she's going to string you along.The women I don't f*ck are women that want to string me out for dates because they see me as a potential provider.
I kick those b*tches to a curb. It's a poor investment of my time, energy, and money to go out with a b*tch for 1-3 months for the possibility of p*ssy.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Corrected yousodbuster said:life is too short to waste time with a woman that won't put out.
Exactly. Me too.MurdocIsGod said:About 99%? But I don't pursue girls clearly not interested... Until I sense interest from them.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.