Lucifero
Senior Don Juan
Out of all the women I've ever approached, mines is terrible for some reason...how about yours?
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
What is your success rate with women?
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
loveshogun
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If this is for sex (vaginal or anal at least), mine's maybe around 10 percent. I approach 10, I get one. If it's for anything short of that, about double, so every 1 of 5.
Then again, I approach selectively compared to some other guys.
If I were to approach completely blind, my percentages would absolutely be lower, but my actual number of lays would be slightly higher. I'd also spend a LOT more time going out.
**EDIT**
Actually, my success rate with women is so far, 0%, because I haven't found one worth keeping.
Define success. I'm assuming it's the lay number.
Then again, I approach selectively compared to some other guys.
If I were to approach completely blind, my percentages would absolutely be lower, but my actual number of lays would be slightly higher. I'd also spend a LOT more time going out.
**EDIT**
Actually, my success rate with women is so far, 0%, because I haven't found one worth keeping.
Define success. I'm assuming it's the lay number.
Bryce556
Senior Don Juan
1 to every 10s not bad, i feel like mines more like 1 for every 100 girls i meet
Lucifero
Senior Don Juan
Your assumption is correct.loveshogun said:
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Lucifero
Senior Don Juan
I used to approach blind but now I look for IOI's before making any moves...but I'm still in "Game Training"....loveshogun said:
The Bad Ass Canadian
Master Don Juan
I'm probably 3 out of every 4 girls I go after... But, mind you I am pretty selective and only go for girls that i find interesting and who also show an interest in me. Once I know she's into it, it's easy. If a girl shows no interest I don't even entertain the idea of trying to get her. No point.
I don't chase after the girls that aren't really that interested. It's usually pretty easy to tell if they're into it or not.
Out of the girls that have some interest (to varying degrees of course. some are aboslutely smitten by you and others only take a slight interest) I'd say my success rate is about 75%.
If I took into account all the girls that I think are cute but never really show any IOI's even though I am into it, I'd say my success rate is considerably lower. Probably 3-5%.
Out of the girls that have some interest (to varying degrees of course. some are aboslutely smitten by you and others only take a slight interest) I'd say my success rate is about 75%.
If I took into account all the girls that I think are cute but never really show any IOI's even though I am into it, I'd say my success rate is considerably lower. Probably 3-5%.
thedude4242
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number wise I am about 30 out of 30 in the last few years. sex about a lot less. maybe 5% at best.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
escaleraroyal
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mine is 1/5. I'm not lying.
Mistic
Senior Don Juan
95%
I know immediately if there is anything there. There either is or there isn't. If there is, all I have to do is look at her and not say anything until I am ready. It's called quiet confidence and women respond way more to this than any opener. The other 5% turn out to be better as friends.
I know immediately if there is anything there. There either is or there isn't. If there is, all I have to do is look at her and not say anything until I am ready. It's called quiet confidence and women respond way more to this than any opener. The other 5% turn out to be better as friends.
nismo-4
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You must be a male model with a fat-ass bank account!San Jose California said:
Lucifero
Senior Don Juan
I do not believe you. Unless you dont approach many women, the it is theoretically possible.San Jose California said:
I count getting blown off or blown out too. If you even failed to get ther number it counts.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Lucifero
Senior Don Juan
Or a liar...but dont we all lie about things...:yawn:nismo-4 said:
Packers2010
Master Don Juan
well. i am a total AFC so i don't " approached" girls. but i did date a girl once. if that counts
DonGorgon
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I seldom approach and I am very selective also so for very 10 tries I get 1.5 lays... lol most women don't find me attractive so I have to wait a while till one actually is attracted that sucks cause I can't cold approach
Lucifero
Senior Don Juan
lol, you scared *****.Packers2010 said:
Anyway, did you **** her? If not then you are 0-1 which equals 0%...
Solomon
Master Don Juan
lol @ Mistic mmmh sure
If were talking strictly approaches I would say 5 out of a 100
My number has dropped the last two years
blame it on the belly, and my lack of "game"
If were talking strictly approaches I would say 5 out of a 100
My number has dropped the last two years
blame it on the belly, and my lack of "game"
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.