"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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What is your real reason being here?

Are you hear to learn how to get laid easier, or be a better man?

  • I wants me S3X!

    Votes: 4 28.6%
  • Better man!

    Votes: 10 71.4%

  • Total voters
    14
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DonJuanit0

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I haven't been on sosuave for about a year now, not posting or reading anything, mostly because I was in a LTR.

Few months now I have broken up and I'm living the single life again, having sex and enjoying myself as much as I can.

Coming back here tho, I've seen some answers and some posts that "bothered" me...? I mean, it got me thinking, do most guys here just want to have sex or become better men in general? I know, for us to search and find a website like this, we obviously wanted to have more women and sex in our lives, but what this forum was about (or at least what I remember) was that the better man you are, the more women you'll have! You don't need to play tricks or fool women or act like a ****!

Being a better man is what will get you more than sex and women.

So, just wondering, are you hear to learn how to get laid easier or to be a better man?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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dustmuffin

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Right now it is to recover from a dumping and improve as a man. I will not remain a beta *****.
 

yungballa

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For me as of right now, it's to just reinvent myself and become a better man.
 

mrgoodstuff

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I wanted some advantages in life to people who really don't care or think about these things.
 

HoneyHitter

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Entertainment.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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NSX-R

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I came here looking on how I can fck a girl i was after and stayed because i saw the potential that no other site has. It helps you improve as a man and the rest is on its way .

It's true what you're saying, I wanted to make a post about it but you were faster. The threads most of the people are making are stupid, it feels like they have never heard of the djbible . They are making questions which have been answered thousands of times.
 

zekko

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I'm here for entertainment.

Given the two choices in the poll, I would choose being a better man. Because sometimes there is some good motivational stuff here.
 

playa99

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I came here originally for s3x, however now I come here to improve my general self.
 

DonJuanit0

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zekko said:
I'm here for entertainment.

Given the two choices in the poll, I would choose being a better man. Because sometimes there is some good motivational stuff here.

To be honest I didn't think of entertainment, you are not the only one who said it. I myself have read most of the bible and not just once, and have learnt a ton from this site! I won't say it made me who I am but it affected me a lot!

I can see your point since I will not really search for answers now, but rather see if I can help or learn something new. As you said, there are some motivational-new things to learn.

I probably should have added that 3rd option tho.
 
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