"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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What is your real reason being here?

Are you hear to learn how to get laid easier, or be a better man?

  • I wants me S3X!

    Votes: 4 28.6%
  • Better man!

    Votes: 10 71.4%

  • Total voters
    14
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DonJuanit0

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I haven't been on sosuave for about a year now, not posting or reading anything, mostly because I was in a LTR.

Few months now I have broken up and I'm living the single life again, having sex and enjoying myself as much as I can.

Coming back here tho, I've seen some answers and some posts that "bothered" me...? I mean, it got me thinking, do most guys here just want to have sex or become better men in general? I know, for us to search and find a website like this, we obviously wanted to have more women and sex in our lives, but what this forum was about (or at least what I remember) was that the better man you are, the more women you'll have! You don't need to play tricks or fool women or act like a ****!

Being a better man is what will get you more than sex and women.

So, just wondering, are you hear to learn how to get laid easier or to be a better man?
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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dustmuffin

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Right now it is to recover from a dumping and improve as a man. I will not remain a beta *****.
 

yungballa

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For me as of right now, it's to just reinvent myself and become a better man.
 

mrgoodstuff

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I wanted some advantages in life to people who really don't care or think about these things.
 

HoneyHitter

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Entertainment.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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NSX-R

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I came here looking on how I can fck a girl i was after and stayed because i saw the potential that no other site has. It helps you improve as a man and the rest is on its way .

It's true what you're saying, I wanted to make a post about it but you were faster. The threads most of the people are making are stupid, it feels like they have never heard of the djbible . They are making questions which have been answered thousands of times.
 

zekko

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I'm here for entertainment.

Given the two choices in the poll, I would choose being a better man. Because sometimes there is some good motivational stuff here.
 

playa99

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I came here originally for s3x, however now I come here to improve my general self.
 

DonJuanit0

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zekko said:
I'm here for entertainment.

Given the two choices in the poll, I would choose being a better man. Because sometimes there is some good motivational stuff here.

To be honest I didn't think of entertainment, you are not the only one who said it. I myself have read most of the bible and not just once, and have learnt a ton from this site! I won't say it made me who I am but it affected me a lot!

I can see your point since I will not really search for answers now, but rather see if I can help or learn something new. As you said, there are some motivational-new things to learn.

I probably should have added that 3rd option tho.
 
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