"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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What is your real reason being here?

Are you hear to learn how to get laid easier, or be a better man?

  • I wants me S3X!

    Votes: 4 28.6%
  • Better man!

    Votes: 10 71.4%

  • Total voters
    14
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DonJuanit0

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I haven't been on sosuave for about a year now, not posting or reading anything, mostly because I was in a LTR.

Few months now I have broken up and I'm living the single life again, having sex and enjoying myself as much as I can.

Coming back here tho, I've seen some answers and some posts that "bothered" me...? I mean, it got me thinking, do most guys here just want to have sex or become better men in general? I know, for us to search and find a website like this, we obviously wanted to have more women and sex in our lives, but what this forum was about (or at least what I remember) was that the better man you are, the more women you'll have! You don't need to play tricks or fool women or act like a ****!

Being a better man is what will get you more than sex and women.

So, just wondering, are you hear to learn how to get laid easier or to be a better man?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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dustmuffin

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Right now it is to recover from a dumping and improve as a man. I will not remain a beta *****.
 

yungballa

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For me as of right now, it's to just reinvent myself and become a better man.
 

mrgoodstuff

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I wanted some advantages in life to people who really don't care or think about these things.
 

HoneyHitter

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Entertainment.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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NSX-R

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I came here looking on how I can fck a girl i was after and stayed because i saw the potential that no other site has. It helps you improve as a man and the rest is on its way .

It's true what you're saying, I wanted to make a post about it but you were faster. The threads most of the people are making are stupid, it feels like they have never heard of the djbible . They are making questions which have been answered thousands of times.
 

zekko

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I'm here for entertainment.

Given the two choices in the poll, I would choose being a better man. Because sometimes there is some good motivational stuff here.
 

playa99

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I came here originally for s3x, however now I come here to improve my general self.
 

DonJuanit0

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zekko said:
I'm here for entertainment.

Given the two choices in the poll, I would choose being a better man. Because sometimes there is some good motivational stuff here.

To be honest I didn't think of entertainment, you are not the only one who said it. I myself have read most of the bible and not just once, and have learnt a ton from this site! I won't say it made me who I am but it affected me a lot!

I can see your point since I will not really search for answers now, but rather see if I can help or learn something new. As you said, there are some motivational-new things to learn.

I probably should have added that 3rd option tho.
 
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