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PinkBear
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What is it?
Personally, I like to watch others talking sh!t.
Personally, I like to watch others talking sh!t.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
I found this site whilst I was looking for a "just got dumped guide". So far it has been a brilliant find, and has helped me out soooo much. If it wasn't for this site I'd be phoning and begging her constantly like a b1tch. I'm 3 weeks in with NC now and am gradually starting to feel better. It's hard don't get me wrong; but I know it's right.
zekko
Master Don Juan
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I came here to learn sh!t, but when I got here I was appalled at how little original knowledge there was here. Most of the useful things were variations of stuff I had heard when I was a kid. I was hoping that there were real, you know, secrets here. That was probably naive of me.
If they would have had this site when I was younger, I probably would have gotten a lot more out of it. When my girlfriend in high school dumped me, do you know how I had to learn not to phone her and beg her like a b!tch? I actually phoned her and begged her like a b!tch. That taught me that not only does that not work, but you also degrade yourself and lose all your self respect. Glad your path was easier.adam225 said:
Skyline
Master Don Juan
I found this site looking up BPD and stumbled upon Brad's Master DJ guide on how to spot one.
Even though i was sort of figuring stuff out, I'm glad I ever found this site or i would of been an AFC for a whole while longer.
Even though i was sort of figuring stuff out, I'm glad I ever found this site or i would of been an AFC for a whole while longer.
blind_one
Master Don Juan
Good job OP, your pool made me laugh ! Props for that.
Learning is my purpose and now also giving out honest opinions and advice where my low-moderate experience allows it :rockon: .
I visit these forums more again !
Learning is my purpose and now also giving out honest opinions and advice where my low-moderate experience allows it :rockon: .
I visit these forums more again !
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Tomthebomb
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To give advice.
I come here because sometimes the posts here prompt me to think about things, and then I write them here or on my blog for my own analysis. I find that when I write stuff out it makes me think about it in more depth.
The comments in response to my posts are uniformely unintelligent -- most blatantly so -- so I don't attempt to take anything away from the replies. But coming to a forum (here or elsewhere) to put thoughts into words is very important for learning IMHO.
The RSD forums, which I've been posting in for the last couple of weeks, have a younger and overall higher quality level of user. They actually have decent mods and so they're aren't inundated with loons, trolls and "manosphere" damage cases. Most of the guys there are actually trying to think logically.
The comments in response to my posts are uniformely unintelligent -- most blatantly so -- so I don't attempt to take anything away from the replies. But coming to a forum (here or elsewhere) to put thoughts into words is very important for learning IMHO.
The RSD forums, which I've been posting in for the last couple of weeks, have a younger and overall higher quality level of user. They actually have decent mods and so they're aren't inundated with loons, trolls and "manosphere" damage cases. Most of the guys there are actually trying to think logically.