"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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What is your number one deal breaker when it comes to women?

El Payaso

El Payaso

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The one thing that instantly turns you off a woman and stop dating or prospecting her. It can be anything.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Bible_Belt

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I can't remember ever having a deal breaker. My job is to close the deal.

For casual sex partners, though, I have sometimes aborted over their refusing a condom when I suggest it. That tells you a lot about what they've been up to.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Huffman

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Gotta second "no sex drive". She's over at your place, playful banter, making jokes about lasting long when she says: "Actually I prefer if it's over quickly".... DUN DUN DUNNNNN. How are we guys supposed to even get it up after that.
 
Bingo-Player

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neediness

boring in bed / lazy

2 things i cant stand

i was going to mention the obvious games they try to play on social media too but they all do it now so its not worth it
 
RangerMIke

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She has to have a decent body. Looks in the face are not that important to me, but she has to be fit and healthy for her age. This is screening criteria.

The most important subjective trait to me is that she has to be willing to put some effort towards me and is willing to chase. Otherwise what's the point. It's like fishing, you toss in the line and you wait for the nibble... I'm not jumping int he water and try to swim after them, the fish always wins and all you get is wet.

After that, she has to be able to hold her own in a conversation... I don't like stupid women. I don't care what she is interested in but she has to have an opinion about something and can talk about it... and it has to be more than her kids or her cats. Sex takes 20 minutes after that... I don't want to hear about the personalities of her different fvcking cats.
 
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Where I'm from we call it:

'being too Hollywood'

I absolutely dread, loathe women who carry themselves in a stuck up manner. Just because you are pretty does not mean you're God's gift to the world. You're just like everyone else. Sadly I am the only one who enforces this belief nowadays.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Acting smug or like she's the ****. I'm well aware of how low quality most women are, so seeing one posturing as the best thing since sliced bread instantly gives me good reason to end the first date early.
 
marmel75

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Boring chicks. And this extends to the bedroom.
 
Konada

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1. Chicks always trying to 1 up and guilt trip you. I take it as a lack of vulnerability and lack of social awareness. Lost count of the number of chicks I had to tell to fvck off because of this.

My philosophy is that if I have to walk on eggshells around them they're probably not worth the time.

2. Boring/no sense of humour
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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GS750

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I'd have to agree that games are my #1 too. I find the whole thing so tiring. I'm not in high school.
 
devilkingx2

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1. Lack of a sense of humor/too boring/too serious/etc.

2. Prudishness/lack of sex drive/judgemental/closed minded

3. Questionable character as shown through obvious red flags.

1. Is because I tend not to get along with women like that anyway and my game doesn't work on them(and I'd only ever wanna pump and dump someone like that)

2. If I wanted to have sex with a girl who acts like a 12 year old about sex, I would be in jail for having sex with 12 year olds, since I'm not, I prefer girls who act their age lmao.

3. This when the girl somehow ends up conveying the message to you that she's a cheater or a liar or disloyal or untrustworthy or untrusting and paranoid or completely psycho etc.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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