"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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What is your number one deal breaker when it comes to women?

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Huffman

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Inability or unwillingness to be vulnerable
Women say that alot but it's really tough for a guy... guys definitely shouldn't show vulnerability too often or too early.
I get that you want to point out trust and emotional connection though, which is hard to come by.
 

l_e_g_e_n_d

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1) Disrespect
2) Putting me second in any capacity or low interest
3) Whorish behavior
4) Money-hungry
5) Classless

In that order.
 

zekko

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Picking from what others have said:
1) Deceit - I've always had a problem with dishonesty
2) AWing - not the kind of chick I want to be with
3) As Espi pointed out, there has to be a physical attraction there or nothing gets off the ground
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Glumix

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Women say that alot but it's really tough for a guy... guys definitely shouldn't show vulnerability too often or too early.
I get that you want to point out trust and emotional connection though, which is hard to come by.
Before talking about vulnerability we should define it because there is often a gap between what one and another think it is. For me it is not at all about showing weaknesses. But that's for another thread.
 

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Where I'm from we call it:

'being too
Hollywood'

I absolutely dread, loathe women who carry themselves in a stuck up manner. Just because you are pretty does not mean you're God's gift to the world. You're just like everyone else. Sadly I am the only one who enforces this belief nowadays.
I live in Atlanta, and that's where I learned the term in 2009! Oh, I enforce it too! The board here knows I don't play.

Being too Hollywood is one thing I can't stand. A few others:
1. Lack of humor (boring/ too serious)
2. Lack of sexual interest/ desire
3. Gold digger/ Attention wh0ring all day
4. Plays too many games (Constant testing and ball busting can count as this.)
5. Dik-teaser (Anything friendzone related falls here too.) Hell, teasing me to where I get soft, then asking for it hours later, gee, I wonder why I'm not getting hard! I'm onto another plate!
 
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