“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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What is your most attractive feature?

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What is your strongest point when it comes to attracting women? Is it your social skills, your muscles, your jawline or eyes, your career, etc. What do you think is most attractive about you and why?
Yes, different girls will value different things. What I am about to share is the universal SMV. While one girl might prefer a White SMV 6 over an Asian SMV 8, for instance, the Asian SMV 8 will do better overall in the market.

Within this SMV macro context, let's consider the total package as a 10. Let's also consider that any extreme among Looks, Status, or Wealth (the SMV facets) will equate to a 9/10 SMV.

Looks


The ideal facial aesthetics on a man comprise high, narrow, angular cheekbones, low eyebrows, nice sculpted eyes, tight or sculpted jawline, full temples, full lips (top lip 75% of bottom lip), flaring masseter muscles, symmetrical facial proportions.

The ideal physique is lean, proportional and muscular in the 10-12% bf range (GQ or fitness model size, not too big).

Status

Too broad. Depends on age and demographics.

Wealth

Too broad. Depends on age and demographics

Social skills--your marketability--will either enhance or diminish the value of the product (your SMV).
 

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Me: “what’s up?”
Tenacity: “well you see that could mean a whole bunch of things. I fully understand that you mean to say “how are you?” but it could also literally mean to ask what is up, such as the sky or the ceiling. But I prefer to say that my finances and looks are up because they are going up. Or they aren’t but they’re already up to begin with. What you should be doing though is working on said things like your finances and your looks. Why would you ask how I am if you aren’t doing well yourself?”

Like bruh.....
Dude....GIVE IT A REST. Move on!
 

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Yes, different girls will value different things. What I am about to share is the universal SMV. While one girl might prefer a White SMV 6 over an Asian SMV 8, for instance, the Asian SMV 8 will do better overall in the market.

Within this SMV macro context, let's consider the total package as a 10. Let's also consider that any extreme among Looks, Status, or Wealth (the SMV facets) will equate to a 9/10 SMV.

Looks


The ideal facial aesthetics on a man comprise high, narrow, angular cheekbones, low eyebrows, nice sculpted eyes, tight or sculpted jawline, full temples, full lips (top lip 75% of bottom lip), flaring masseter muscles, symmetrical facial proportions.

The ideal physique is lean, proportional and muscular in the 10-12% bf range (GQ or fitness model size, not too big).

Status

Too broad. Depends on age and demographics.

Wealth

Too broad. Depends on age and demographics

Social skills--your marketability--will either enhance or diminish the value of the product (your SMV).
So it’s only looks that are a universal indicator of value? Makes sense I guess.
Dude....GIVE IT A REST. Move on!
My thread brah. I’m not letting you HaVE the last WORD.
And type normally too. You copy PK’s style even though you hated most of things about him.

Reply again. I dare you. You know you want to. And we both know that your fragile ego will force you to anyway. You’re too weak to resist. Let’s see if you can take your own advice princess snowflake:
 

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There was another thread recently that asked this question. I would imagine that a real DJ would have an answer at the ready, but I really had to think about this one. I'm pretty average in the looks department, so it's hard to say. I'm 5'10", which is - of course - average. I have a full head of hair, which is nice at my age, but it's gray. I'm muscular because I've exercised all my life, but my skeletal frame is small. Why would a girl be attracted to me?

After thinking about it, I came up with this answer: I have my sh!t together. Intelligence is supposed to work against you, but I seem to have some skill at setting my life up the right way. That plus I'm authentic, I'm not a fan of dishonesty. I'm sure many would say that should work against me too. Here's an odd thing I've noticed: A lot of women ask me for advice. My girlfriend even comes home with questions written down for me from other women. They just figure I will know the answer. I know you won't find that in a David DeAngelo book, but that's the main reason I can think of.
 

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It is a mixture of things. But I will tell you it's my energy, mostly positive. Also, the fact I am knowledgable about a lot of topics and can have conversations on pretty much anything. Long hair, deep green eyes and it is SUPER hard to make me feel uncomfortable in any kind of situation. I can handle social situations quite well with any kind of age, background, anything.
 

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my charismatic personality, since I don't often get compliments on my looks (although now that I think about it, most of the girls who were into me thought I was good looking)
 

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I m 51 now so I d be scared to ask. Probably my wallet. Currently reasonably good looking girls seem to appear regularly and want to stay. When that stops I guess I ll have be a bit more active with the ol DJ skills. But honestly if it all stopped tomorrow I ve had more than my share and I'd still be happy.
 

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You just got a bone to pick with everyone don’t you. I made this thing at 11:19 PM right before I was about to go to bed, the day was well over. I was curious. You make things into something so much bigger than it needs to be. Just cool it.
Good topic.
I have never had a problem with Tenacity as I relate to his frustration but he displays npd tendencies...
he gave you a hard time and then you respond to it then he acts as if you were the one to give him a hard time..turns it around, now is saying to let it go and move on....
 

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ROFLMAO my fam! :rofl:
 

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Good topic.
I have never had a problem with Tenacity as I relate to his frustration but he displays npd tendencies...
he gave you a hard time and then you respond to it then he acts as if you were the one to give him a hard time..turns it around, now is saying to let it go and move on....
He’s on ignore now so I don’t see any of his idiocy anymore, thank goodness. He’s officially turned into one of those ACTUAL misogynists and thinks the world owes him something. Meanwhile he’s too scared to try something new. He’s the dude who took the red pill up the ass and barfed it out rather than swallowed it whole and actually absorb it. That’s why he’s so sour.
 

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It is a good question. .
What works consistently the most is what women are drawn to. Despite everyone has their own personalities sometimes there are things we can work on to better our attraction.

Despite my frustration vented out here, I carry a positive aura and demeanor. I get things done and do them well.
I am the guy who is asked for advice and guidance through just about everything in life, however if asked about women i decline, because clearly I cant find a good girl to save my life who am I to give that advice.

From what I've been told I'm fairly good looking (thanks mom and dad) in good shape as i work out diligently, have a good demeanor, am sarcastically funny and step up and take control getting things done when needed. Sadly in this entitled day and age women are attracted to these attributes but have been raised control freak spoiled brats so they self sabatage everything because they must run the show in every regard.

Im cool with sitting by like a male lion until i have to get up and pounce and take over, but women just want a beta male they can bully in every way these days. They are not interested in a mutual loving life long bond. I cant do it, i cant sit back and let a woman control the money when she has **** credit and is in debt thowing her mobey awayon minimum monthly payments. It doesnt make sense. Women refuse to know their place. There are many things I allow a woman to control she is better with. Tho no reciprocation from females these days. Hell they are not even nice or kind.

Most Women have become such lowlifes they are happy to be divorced 5 times instead of embarrassed.
 

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My face, body, car, confidence, social skills, still young (just turned 20), and experience (they sense it in you). Before TRP i mostly depended on my physical aspects but its your other parts that truly attract women
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Almost every woman I have dated has said, "I love the way you carry yourself". They didn't mention confidence or anything else. I am not much to look at, so I will just with what I have heard from others.
 

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My eyes. Girls been telling me they like my eyes ever since I was in middle school. Unfortunately, that's pretty much the only thing going for me since I hate doing exercise.
 

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Bad hours at work half of the year.

Rather spend time with family if they are available.

Hate public rsstrooms.

Hate going outside of the house when it's rainy, hot, or cold.

I spend most of my money on vacations


There are probably more reasons but those are the ones coming to mind right now
Why aren't you at the gym?????? :eek:



Meanwhile... other DJs be like: :p

 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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