ImTheDoubleGreatest!
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What is your strongest point when it comes to attracting women? Is it your social skills, your muscles, your jawline or eyes, your career, etc. What do you think is most attractive about you and why?
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
What is your most attractive feature?
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
TheProspect
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Well, physically speaking, I was more or less the same before and after I gained confidence, charisma, and ambition. I noticed a large increase in the attraction I was getting from women when I internalized those 3 attributes, so in my case, the strongest point for me are the intangibles. I'd say I'm in fairly good shape, with above average looks, so I always got attention from others, but improving my self-confidence and evolving from my introverted tendencies increased the frequency of that attention significantly.
wifehunter
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btownbuck2012
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My most attractive feature is the ability to be comfortable around anyone, socially.
Ironically, this stemmed from years of being the exact opposite. I used to be very shy and it's like I kicked it into overdrive trying to improve that over the years and I now have people complimenting me on how naturally extroverted I am. Lol, if they only knew..
Ironically, this stemmed from years of being the exact opposite. I used to be very shy and it's like I kicked it into overdrive trying to improve that over the years and I now have people complimenting me on how naturally extroverted I am. Lol, if they only knew..
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
logicallefty
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Women have told me that I am the perfect balance of knowing how to have fun but also having "the world by the b@lls" as one ex GF put it. Also mysterious. Others have said "I just can't quite figure you out, but I love whatever it is". Physically I have quite a bit of muscle but I also have a beer gut that I would like to get rid of. I also have a full head of thick black hair. No Mr. Grey here. Many of my buddies are already partially bald, full bald, or partially grey.
Tenacity
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Not sure how any guy can truly answer this......as what one girl finds highly attractive, the next girl might not find as attractive but instead, might see some other trait you have that's keeping her coming around.
Instead of trying to figure stuff like this out, just try to fix yourself in all major areas. Your looks, your finances, your personality, your clothing style, your car, your place of residence, etc. One girl might like the fact that you make her laugh, the next girl might like the fact that you are intelligent, the next girl might like multiple things, etc.
i dont agree. most of girls both consciously and subconsciously find the same things attractive that we all mention here from time to time (for example look, money, ripped body, game, character, social proof).
yeah women like hot boys/men with power. no exceptions. physical ripped body as well as good look and money a guy has is deep valued in her same as all men would bang top female models
even if she wanted have a fetisch for obese people she probably couldnt because its against her subconscious state of mind. its like hoping a turtle will get a boner from seeing sexy giraffe
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
TheGambino
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My confidence
TheGambino
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Im broke af can we Work something out i can offer things in return? Im serious
KingofPuss
Master Don Juan
I'm pretty shredded, I always get compliments on my "angular" face, and since I became a waiter and forced myself out of my comfort zone, the charisma has come along with it. I finally am more comfortable in my own skin which makes others more comfortable around you. It's been an insane flip of the script, from a dry spell to not having enough time for friends, women, family, work, and other things...
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
ImTheDoubleGreatest!
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Man don’t look so deep into things. Generally speaking, what’s helped you out the most? That’s it. I’m asking out of curiosity. Not for me to see which one ‘is the best’. I’m just bored really.
Tenacity
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Why are you bored? There's a tons of things you need to be working on (such as getting out of your parents house), right? And I already answered your thread topic question, for me it's not ONE thing, it's a combination of things and it's not the same combination with every girl. That's my answer. It's not my problem if you don't like my answer.
I completely disagree. But that's the beauty of a Discussion Board, right? We can all report our own opinions and viewpoints.
ImTheDoubleGreatest!
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You just got a bone to pick with everyone don’t you. I made this thing at 11:19 PM right before I was about to go to bed, the day was well over. I was curious. You make things into something so much bigger than it needs to be. Just cool it.
Tenacity
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What are you talking about? Dude ignore my comment and focus on the dozen other comments on this thread. I'm honestly getting tired of you bickering for no reason. If you don't want to hear someone's opinion, stop making a thread asking for someone's opinion.
ImTheDoubleGreatest!
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Me: “what’s up?”
Tenacity: “well you see that could mean a whole bunch of things. I fully understand that you mean to say “how are you?” but it could also literally mean to ask what is up, such as the sky or the ceiling. But I prefer to say that my finances and looks are up because they are going up. Or they aren’t but they’re already up to begin with. What you should be doing though is working on said things like your finances and your looks. Why would you ask how I am if you aren’t doing well yourself?”
Like bruh.....
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.