"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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What is your most attractive feature?

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What is your strongest point when it comes to attracting women? Is it your social skills, your muscles, your jawline or eyes, your career, etc. What do you think is most attractive about you and why?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Well, physically speaking, I was more or less the same before and after I gained confidence, charisma, and ambition. I noticed a large increase in the attraction I was getting from women when I internalized those 3 attributes, so in my case, the strongest point for me are the intangibles. I'd say I'm in fairly good shape, with above average looks, so I always got attention from others, but improving my self-confidence and evolving from my introverted tendencies increased the frequency of that attention significantly.
 

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What is your strongest point when it comes to attracting women? Is it your social skills, your muscles, your jawline or eyes, your career, etc. What do you think is most attractive about you and why?
Frame...everything else is 'small potatoes'

 

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My most attractive feature is the ability to be comfortable around anyone, socially.

Ironically, this stemmed from years of being the exact opposite. I used to be very shy and it's like I kicked it into overdrive trying to improve that over the years and I now have people complimenting me on how naturally extroverted I am. Lol, if they only knew..
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Being a natural DJ.

Happiness and the power of my smile :)
 

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Women have told me that I am the perfect balance of knowing how to have fun but also having "the world by the b@lls" as one ex GF put it. Also mysterious. Others have said "I just can't quite figure you out, but I love whatever it is". Physically I have quite a bit of muscle but I also have a beer gut that I would like to get rid of. I also have a full head of thick black hair. No Mr. Grey here. Many of my buddies are already partially bald, full bald, or partially grey.
 

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Me ! I am à whole package
 

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What is your strongest point when it comes to attracting women? Is it your social skills, your muscles, your jawline or eyes, your career, etc. What do you think is most attractive about you and why?
Not sure how any guy can truly answer this......as what one girl finds highly attractive, the next girl might not find as attractive but instead, might see some other trait you have that's keeping her coming around.

Instead of trying to figure stuff like this out, just try to fix yourself in all major areas. Your looks, your finances, your personality, your clothing style, your car, your place of residence, etc. One girl might like the fact that you make her laugh, the next girl might like the fact that you are intelligent, the next girl might like multiple things, etc.
 

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Not sure how any guy can truly answer this......as what one girl finds highly attractive, the next girl might not find as attractive but instead, might see some other trait you have that's keeping her coming around.

i dont agree. most of girls both consciously and subconsciously find the same things attractive that we all mention here from time to time (for example look, money, ripped body, game, character, social proof).

yeah women like hot boys/men with power. no exceptions. physical ripped body as well as good look and money a guy has is deep valued in her same as all men would bang top female models

even if she wanted have a fetisch for obese people she probably couldnt because its against her subconscious state of mind. its like hoping a turtle will get a boner from seeing sexy giraffe
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Women have told me they love my boldness and blue eyes,they also like that I am retired and love to have fun.
 

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I'm pretty shredded, I always get compliments on my "angular" face, and since I became a waiter and forced myself out of my comfort zone, the charisma has come along with it. I finally am more comfortable in my own skin which makes others more comfortable around you. It's been an insane flip of the script, from a dry spell to not having enough time for friends, women, family, work, and other things...
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Not sure how any guy can truly answer this......as what one girl finds highly attractive, the next girl might not find as attractive but instead, might see some other trait you have that's keeping her coming around.

Instead of trying to figure stuff like this out, just try to fix yourself in all major areas. Your looks, your finances, your personality, your clothing style, your car, your place of residence, etc. One girl might like the fact that you make her laugh, the next girl might like the fact that you are intelligent, the next girl might like multiple things, etc.
Man don’t look so deep into things. Generally speaking, what’s helped you out the most? That’s it. I’m asking out of curiosity. Not for me to see which one ‘is the best’. I’m just bored really.
 

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Man don’t look so deep into things. Generally speaking, what’s helped you out the most? That’s it. I’m asking out of curiosity. Not for me to see which one ‘is the best’. I’m just bored really.
Why are you bored? There's a tons of things you need to be working on (such as getting out of your parents house), right? And I already answered your thread topic question, for me it's not ONE thing, it's a combination of things and it's not the same combination with every girl. That's my answer. It's not my problem if you don't like my answer.

i dont agree. most of girls both consciously and subconsciously find the same things attractive that we all mention here from time to time (for example look, money, ripped body, game, character, social proof).

yeah women like hot boys/men with power. no exceptions. physical ripped body as well as good look and money a guy has is deep valued in her same as all men would bang top female models

even if she wanted have a fetisch for obese people she probably couldnt because its against her subconscious state of mind. its like hoping a turtle will get a boner from seeing sexy giraffe
I completely disagree. But that's the beauty of a Discussion Board, right? We can all report our own opinions and viewpoints.
 

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Why are you bored? There's a tons of things you need to be working on (such as getting out of your parents house), right? And I already answered your thread topic question, for me it's not ONE thing, it's a combination of things and it's not the same combination with every girl. That's my answer. It's not my problem if you don't like my answer.
You just got a bone to pick with everyone don’t you. I made this thing at 11:19 PM right before I was about to go to bed, the day was well over. I was curious. You make things into something so much bigger than it needs to be. Just cool it.
 

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You just got a bone to pick with everyone don’t you. I made this thing at 11:19 PM right before I was about to go to bed, the day was well over. I was curious. You make things into something so much bigger than it needs to be. Just cool it.
What are you talking about? Dude ignore my comment and focus on the dozen other comments on this thread. I'm honestly getting tired of you bickering for no reason. If you don't want to hear someone's opinion, stop making a thread asking for someone's opinion.
 

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What are you talking about? Dude ignore my comment and focus on the dozen other comments on this thread. I'm honestly getting tired of you bickering for no reason. If you don't want to hear someone's opinion, stop making a thread asking for someone's opinion.
Me: “what’s up?”
Tenacity: “well you see that could mean a whole bunch of things. I fully understand that you mean to say “how are you?” but it could also literally mean to ask what is up, such as the sky or the ceiling. But I prefer to say that my finances and looks are up because they are going up. Or they aren’t but they’re already up to begin with. What you should be doing though is working on said things like your finances and your looks. Why would you ask how I am if you aren’t doing well yourself?”

Like bruh.....
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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