ImTheDoubleGreatest!
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What is your strongest point when it comes to attracting women? Is it your social skills, your muscles, your jawline or eyes, your career, etc. What do you think is most attractive about you and why?
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
What is your most attractive feature?
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“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
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Well, physically speaking, I was more or less the same before and after I gained confidence, charisma, and ambition. I noticed a large increase in the attraction I was getting from women when I internalized those 3 attributes, so in my case, the strongest point for me are the intangibles. I'd say I'm in fairly good shape, with above average looks, so I always got attention from others, but improving my self-confidence and evolving from my introverted tendencies increased the frequency of that attention significantly.
wifehunter
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btownbuck2012
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My most attractive feature is the ability to be comfortable around anyone, socially.
Ironically, this stemmed from years of being the exact opposite. I used to be very shy and it's like I kicked it into overdrive trying to improve that over the years and I now have people complimenting me on how naturally extroverted I am. Lol, if they only knew..
Ironically, this stemmed from years of being the exact opposite. I used to be very shy and it's like I kicked it into overdrive trying to improve that over the years and I now have people complimenting me on how naturally extroverted I am. Lol, if they only knew..
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
logicallefty
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Women have told me that I am the perfect balance of knowing how to have fun but also having "the world by the b@lls" as one ex GF put it. Also mysterious. Others have said "I just can't quite figure you out, but I love whatever it is". Physically I have quite a bit of muscle but I also have a beer gut that I would like to get rid of. I also have a full head of thick black hair. No Mr. Grey here. Many of my buddies are already partially bald, full bald, or partially grey.
Tenacity
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Not sure how any guy can truly answer this......as what one girl finds highly attractive, the next girl might not find as attractive but instead, might see some other trait you have that's keeping her coming around.
Instead of trying to figure stuff like this out, just try to fix yourself in all major areas. Your looks, your finances, your personality, your clothing style, your car, your place of residence, etc. One girl might like the fact that you make her laugh, the next girl might like the fact that you are intelligent, the next girl might like multiple things, etc.
i dont agree. most of girls both consciously and subconsciously find the same things attractive that we all mention here from time to time (for example look, money, ripped body, game, character, social proof).
yeah women like hot boys/men with power. no exceptions. physical ripped body as well as good look and money a guy has is deep valued in her same as all men would bang top female models
even if she wanted have a fetisch for obese people she probably couldnt because its against her subconscious state of mind. its like hoping a turtle will get a boner from seeing sexy giraffe
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
TheGambino
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My confidence
TheGambino
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Im broke af can we Work something out i can offer things in return? Im serious
KingofPuss
Master Don Juan
I'm pretty shredded, I always get compliments on my "angular" face, and since I became a waiter and forced myself out of my comfort zone, the charisma has come along with it. I finally am more comfortable in my own skin which makes others more comfortable around you. It's been an insane flip of the script, from a dry spell to not having enough time for friends, women, family, work, and other things...
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
ImTheDoubleGreatest!
Master Don Juan
Man don’t look so deep into things. Generally speaking, what’s helped you out the most? That’s it. I’m asking out of curiosity. Not for me to see which one ‘is the best’. I’m just bored really.
Tenacity
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Why are you bored? There's a tons of things you need to be working on (such as getting out of your parents house), right? And I already answered your thread topic question, for me it's not ONE thing, it's a combination of things and it's not the same combination with every girl. That's my answer. It's not my problem if you don't like my answer.
I completely disagree. But that's the beauty of a Discussion Board, right? We can all report our own opinions and viewpoints.
ImTheDoubleGreatest!
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You just got a bone to pick with everyone don’t you. I made this thing at 11:19 PM right before I was about to go to bed, the day was well over. I was curious. You make things into something so much bigger than it needs to be. Just cool it.
Tenacity
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What are you talking about? Dude ignore my comment and focus on the dozen other comments on this thread. I'm honestly getting tired of you bickering for no reason. If you don't want to hear someone's opinion, stop making a thread asking for someone's opinion.
ImTheDoubleGreatest!
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Me: “what’s up?”
Tenacity: “well you see that could mean a whole bunch of things. I fully understand that you mean to say “how are you?” but it could also literally mean to ask what is up, such as the sky or the ceiling. But I prefer to say that my finances and looks are up because they are going up. Or they aren’t but they’re already up to begin with. What you should be doing though is working on said things like your finances and your looks. Why would you ask how I am if you aren’t doing well yourself?”
Like bruh.....
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.