Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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What is your minimum HB # for sarging?

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  • HB 5

    Votes: 1 4.0%
  • HB 5.5

    Votes: 0 0.0%
  • HB 6

    Votes: 4 16.0%
  • HB 6.5

    Votes: 6 24.0%
  • HB 7

    Votes: 8 32.0%
  • HB 7.5

    Votes: 1 4.0%
  • HB 8

    Votes: 1 4.0%
  • HB 8.5

    Votes: 1 4.0%
  • HB 9

    Votes: 3 12.0%

  • Total voters
    25

Mr. Wolf

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What is your minimum HB number for approaching a woman with intent to fclose her?


Any other intent than fclose does not count. For example, you might approach HB5 just because, for practice, or crash and burn, does not count.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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potato

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Mr. Wolf said:
For whoever selected HB 9.. How often do you get laid with different women?
I only pursue those women who really turn me on and there’s not a lot who do. Mostly, if she’s not the prettiest girl in the room, I’m not interested. I’ll flirt and hang out with lesser women but I am very picky when it comes to who I’ll get intimate with, physically as well as emotionally.

Typically I’ll gain a new girlfriend at a rate of about once a year, sometimes less, sometimes more, but each tends to stay around, on and off, for a few years. This year there have been 4 that I’ve had sex with.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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The Inside Man

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7.5. If its lower than that I cant be attracted enough to even care, but sometimes Ive hooked up with girls under 7.5 if they make most of the effort.
 

Canadien

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For Now

the low point for me is 6.5HB, but I probably dominate the interaction, as I look and act very confident, its just that I'm new at this dating sarging stuff, so I usually make any possibly sarges that I feel are within my reach, but it dies out rather quick due to lack of attraction from my side..
 

Microphone Fiend

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it correlates with how much liquor I've had that night. Someone once said something I like to live by:

'my standards are as high as the prettiest girl in the room'
 

mahon83050

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MightyMate said:
For sex i can go to 8 if i really need it, but mainly i never approch less than 9.

It is a 7 for me. I actually prefer the 7's and 8's to the Super hot ones.

Who the hell in their mind wants to draw that kind of attention (when with a super hot chick) and have guys acting like swarming vultures around her all of the time. NO THANKS!!
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Joe The Homophobe

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I approach any girl I find attractive not just the 8's and above. A girl I find attractive to me might be a 7 but to another guy might be a 6.5. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder.

reminds me

One day Adams sitting in the garden of Eden all depressed. Gods comes to him and says 'Adam, why are you sad? I have created this paradise so you may be happy'. Adam says to God 'Its a really nice garden and all, but I have no one to cook or clean for me, and I have no one to play with my balls'. So God thinks for a moment and says 'ok, I have the perfect mate in mind, but it will cost you 1 arm, 1 leg, 1 of your eyes and you left nut.' Adam ponders for a moment and says 'really? what can i get for just one rib?'
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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