"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
What is your minimum HB # for sarging?
- Thread starter Mr. Wolf
- Start date
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
mostwantedbabyfather
Don Juan
I only pursue those women who really turn me on and there’s not a lot who do. Mostly, if she’s not the prettiest girl in the room, I’m not interested. I’ll flirt and hang out with lesser women but I am very picky when it comes to who I’ll get intimate with, physically as well as emotionally.Mr. Wolf said:
Typically I’ll gain a new girlfriend at a rate of about once a year, sometimes less, sometimes more, but each tends to stay around, on and off, for a few years. This year there have been 4 that I’ve had sex with.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
The Inside Man
Master Don Juan
the low point for me is 6.5HB, but I probably dominate the interaction, as I look and act very confident, its just that I'm new at this dating sarging stuff, so I usually make any possibly sarges that I feel are within my reach, but it dies out rather quick due to lack of attraction from my side..
Microphone Fiend
Master Don Juan
'my standards are as high as the prettiest girl in the room'
MightyMate
Master Don Juan
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mahon83050
Banned
MightyMate said:
It is a 7 for me. I actually prefer the 7's and 8's to the Super hot ones.
Who the hell in their mind wants to draw that kind of attention (when with a super hot chick) and have guys acting like swarming vultures around her all of the time. NO THANKS!!
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Dongfu
Banned
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Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
Yes, exactly. If a HB5 wants to be my fvck toy wh0re, then it's hard to say noDongfu said:
Joe The Homophobe
Master Don Juan
reminds me
One day Adams sitting in the garden of Eden all depressed. Gods comes to him and says 'Adam, why are you sad? I have created this paradise so you may be happy'. Adam says to God 'Its a really nice garden and all, but I have no one to cook or clean for me, and I have no one to play with my balls'. So God thinks for a moment and says 'ok, I have the perfect mate in mind, but it will cost you 1 arm, 1 leg, 1 of your eyes and you left nut.' Adam ponders for a moment and says 'really? what can i get for just one rib?'
Lord Shinra
Senior Don Juan
Anything lower I wont bother with.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.