"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
What is your minimum HB # for sarging?
- Thread starter Mr. Wolf
- Start date
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
mostwantedbabyfather
Don Juan
I only pursue those women who really turn me on and there’s not a lot who do. Mostly, if she’s not the prettiest girl in the room, I’m not interested. I’ll flirt and hang out with lesser women but I am very picky when it comes to who I’ll get intimate with, physically as well as emotionally.Mr. Wolf said:
Typically I’ll gain a new girlfriend at a rate of about once a year, sometimes less, sometimes more, but each tends to stay around, on and off, for a few years. This year there have been 4 that I’ve had sex with.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
The Inside Man
Master Don Juan
the low point for me is 6.5HB, but I probably dominate the interaction, as I look and act very confident, its just that I'm new at this dating sarging stuff, so I usually make any possibly sarges that I feel are within my reach, but it dies out rather quick due to lack of attraction from my side..
Microphone Fiend
Master Don Juan
'my standards are as high as the prettiest girl in the room'
MightyMate
Master Don Juan
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mahon83050
Banned
MightyMate said:
It is a 7 for me. I actually prefer the 7's and 8's to the Super hot ones.
Who the hell in their mind wants to draw that kind of attention (when with a super hot chick) and have guys acting like swarming vultures around her all of the time. NO THANKS!!
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Dongfu
Banned
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Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
Yes, exactly. If a HB5 wants to be my fvck toy wh0re, then it's hard to say noDongfu said:
Joe The Homophobe
Master Don Juan
reminds me
One day Adams sitting in the garden of Eden all depressed. Gods comes to him and says 'Adam, why are you sad? I have created this paradise so you may be happy'. Adam says to God 'Its a really nice garden and all, but I have no one to cook or clean for me, and I have no one to play with my balls'. So God thinks for a moment and says 'ok, I have the perfect mate in mind, but it will cost you 1 arm, 1 leg, 1 of your eyes and you left nut.' Adam ponders for a moment and says 'really? what can i get for just one rib?'
Lord Shinra
Senior Don Juan
Anything lower I wont bother with.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.