"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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What is your minimum HB # for sarging?

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  • HB 5

    Votes: 1 4.0%
  • HB 5.5

    Votes: 0 0.0%
  • HB 6

    Votes: 4 16.0%
  • HB 6.5

    Votes: 6 24.0%
  • HB 7

    Votes: 8 32.0%
  • HB 7.5

    Votes: 1 4.0%
  • HB 8

    Votes: 1 4.0%
  • HB 8.5

    Votes: 1 4.0%
  • HB 9

    Votes: 3 12.0%

  • Total voters
    25

Mr. Wolf

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What is your minimum HB number for approaching a woman with intent to fclose her?


Any other intent than fclose does not count. For example, you might approach HB5 just because, for practice, or crash and burn, does not count.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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potato

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Mr. Wolf said:
For whoever selected HB 9.. How often do you get laid with different women?
I only pursue those women who really turn me on and there’s not a lot who do. Mostly, if she’s not the prettiest girl in the room, I’m not interested. I’ll flirt and hang out with lesser women but I am very picky when it comes to who I’ll get intimate with, physically as well as emotionally.

Typically I’ll gain a new girlfriend at a rate of about once a year, sometimes less, sometimes more, but each tends to stay around, on and off, for a few years. This year there have been 4 that I’ve had sex with.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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The Inside Man

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7.5. If its lower than that I cant be attracted enough to even care, but sometimes Ive hooked up with girls under 7.5 if they make most of the effort.
 

Canadien

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For Now

the low point for me is 6.5HB, but I probably dominate the interaction, as I look and act very confident, its just that I'm new at this dating sarging stuff, so I usually make any possibly sarges that I feel are within my reach, but it dies out rather quick due to lack of attraction from my side..
 

Microphone Fiend

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it correlates with how much liquor I've had that night. Someone once said something I like to live by:

'my standards are as high as the prettiest girl in the room'
 

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MightyMate said:
For sex i can go to 8 if i really need it, but mainly i never approch less than 9.

It is a 7 for me. I actually prefer the 7's and 8's to the Super hot ones.

Who the hell in their mind wants to draw that kind of attention (when with a super hot chick) and have guys acting like swarming vultures around her all of the time. NO THANKS!!
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Joe The Homophobe

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I approach any girl I find attractive not just the 8's and above. A girl I find attractive to me might be a 7 but to another guy might be a 6.5. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder.

reminds me

One day Adams sitting in the garden of Eden all depressed. Gods comes to him and says 'Adam, why are you sad? I have created this paradise so you may be happy'. Adam says to God 'Its a really nice garden and all, but I have no one to cook or clean for me, and I have no one to play with my balls'. So God thinks for a moment and says 'ok, I have the perfect mate in mind, but it will cost you 1 arm, 1 leg, 1 of your eyes and you left nut.' Adam ponders for a moment and says 'really? what can i get for just one rib?'
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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