"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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What is your greatest virtue that you abide by?

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My son ... the only virtue that matters is intransigent resilience. This means an ironclad will that supersedes ALL that life will throw at you, as YOU will always (without forethought) rise up, fight against the tide, and conquer ... irrespective of the obstacle. That you are forged with insurmountable greatness so much so that your destiny is already paved. That you will fail big, but because of this herculean resilience, you will succeed BIGGER.

This is ALL you need. All other virtues are man constructs.
 
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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guru1000 said:
My son ... the only virtue that matters is intransigent resilience. This means an ironclad will that supersedes ALL that life will throw at you, as YOU will always (without forethought) rise up, fight against the tide, and conquer ... irrespective of the obstacle. That you are forged with insurmountable greatness so much so that your destiny is already paved. That you will fail big, but because of this herculean resilience, you will succeed BIGGER.

This is ALL you need. All other virtues are man constructs.
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Strength is needed to have this. The only thing resilience implies is an unwillingness to fold, it does NOT mean you will actually ACT or make any changes. It does not even require strength necessarily. Take RichardTheFrog for example. This man has a resilience towards self-improvement that none have ever seen before. Yet we all know that he has no inner strength. But he is resilient sure enough.
 
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My gfs made me feel like a total loser chump for staying faithful. Awful.
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....and that's when you quit being faithful. No woman should be doing that 5hit. They should appreciate that you chose to stick around.

I think if a woman knows you have a LOT of options and have no problem replacing her, she may think twice before treating you like garbage. However, women who expect men to be loyal just because she's a woman and it's "the right thing to do" will never be able to realize that he can and will replace her.
 
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Strength is needed to have this. The only thing resilience implies is an unwillingness to fold, it does NOT mean you will actually ACT or make any changes. It does not even require strength necessarily. Take RichardTheFrog for example. This man has a resilience towards self-improvement that none have ever seen before. Yet we all know that he has no inner strength. But he is resilient sure enough.
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You're an idiot.

You've never persevered through anything in your life.

You are the one who has no strength.

You are not on my level. Go back to preschool, little boy.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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guru1000 said:
My son ... the only virtue that matters is intransigent resilience. This means an ironclad will that supersedes ALL that life will throw at you, as YOU will always (without forethought) rise up, fight against the tide, and conquer ... irrespective of the obstacle. That you are forged with insurmountable greatness so much so that your destiny is already paved. That you will fail big, but because of this herculean resilience, you will succeed BIGGER.

This is ALL you need. All other virtues are man constructs.
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This is true, the times in life where I have struggled have been where I've let life wear me down & I gave up!
 
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