"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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What is your greatest virtue that you abide by?

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My son ... the only virtue that matters is intransigent resilience. This means an ironclad will that supersedes ALL that life will throw at you, as YOU will always (without forethought) rise up, fight against the tide, and conquer ... irrespective of the obstacle. That you are forged with insurmountable greatness so much so that your destiny is already paved. That you will fail big, but because of this herculean resilience, you will succeed BIGGER.

This is ALL you need. All other virtues are man constructs.
 
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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My son ... the only virtue that matters is intransigent resilience. This means an ironclad will that supersedes ALL that life will throw at you, as YOU will always (without forethought) rise up, fight against the tide, and conquer ... irrespective of the obstacle. That you are forged with insurmountable greatness so much so that your destiny is already paved. That you will fail big, but because of this herculean resilience, you will succeed BIGGER.

This is ALL you need. All other virtues are man constructs.
Strength is needed to have this. The only thing resilience implies is an unwillingness to fold, it does NOT mean you will actually ACT or make any changes. It does not even require strength necessarily. Take RichardTheFrog for example. This man has a resilience towards self-improvement that none have ever seen before. Yet we all know that he has no inner strength. But he is resilient sure enough.
 

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My gfs made me feel like a total loser chump for staying faithful. Awful.
....and that's when you quit being faithful. No woman should be doing that 5hit. They should appreciate that you chose to stick around.

I think if a woman knows you have a LOT of options and have no problem replacing her, she may think twice before treating you like garbage. However, women who expect men to be loyal just because she's a woman and it's "the right thing to do" will never be able to realize that he can and will replace her.
 
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Strength is needed to have this. The only thing resilience implies is an unwillingness to fold, it does NOT mean you will actually ACT or make any changes. It does not even require strength necessarily. Take RichardTheFrog for example. This man has a resilience towards self-improvement that none have ever seen before. Yet we all know that he has no inner strength. But he is resilient sure enough.
You're an idiot.

You've never persevered through anything in your life.

You are the one who has no strength.

You are not on my level. Go back to preschool, little boy.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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My son ... the only virtue that matters is intransigent resilience. This means an ironclad will that supersedes ALL that life will throw at you, as YOU will always (without forethought) rise up, fight against the tide, and conquer ... irrespective of the obstacle. That you are forged with insurmountable greatness so much so that your destiny is already paved. That you will fail big, but because of this herculean resilience, you will succeed BIGGER.

This is ALL you need. All other virtues are man constructs.
This is true, the times in life where I have struggled have been where I've let life wear me down & I gave up!
 
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