What is your end goal?

[Jifto]

I've been reading a bunch of red pill stuff and realized that I never really defined my desired end goal...what an oversight! In every other area of my life (fitness, career, money etc) I have goals. These may not be well defined (ex. I want to put on muscle, I don't have an end number in mind), but I at least have general outlines of where I want to be versus where I am now.

My last 'relationship' was with a girl that was crazy in love with me one moment and evil incarnate seconds later. I put up with this sh!t for way too long and I think that part of the reason for this was that I didn't really know where I wanted things to end up with her. Was I looking for a LTR? If I was, she was NOT the person for that and I should have ended it sooner than I did. Was I looking for a plate? If I was, I should have played it differently and not *put up with it* but basically treated her like a plate.

Now I know what I want: to take my time finding someone I actually care about. This means not falling for the next thing that comes around, but actively meeting women, developing plates and learning what makes me happy.

Where does this end for you? When will you stop visiting SS? What is success in a year / 10 years?

 

[bigneil]

The end game is continuous self improvement, so that even as we age we keep having more fulfilling experiences.

 

[ChristopherColumbus]

The older the bachelor becomes the more he gets used to being single. I think it unlikely that I will ever get married. I shall aim for eternal beatitude instead.

 

[Serenity]

Where does this end for you? When will you stop visiting SS? What is success in a year / 10 years?

Life ends in the grave, for me that's a very long time if I die of age. I have no idea when I will stop visiting SS, I already got what I came here for. What is success? Whatever makes the time between now and that grave great and worth living, there's no permanent answer other than that.

 

[bigneil]

The end goal is to rule the world, or at least change the world, or at least leave some mark in history, or at least help someone else achieve those things.

 

[resilient]

I would venture to say even if you get in a LTR or marriage, don't just stop visiting SS. The problem is once your settle in a LTR or marriage, you start coasting thinking everything is "cool". You get so comfortable, that you stop noticing subtle sh!t tests, her withdrawing affection, sechs, gets lazy, gains weight, stops helping around the house and you enter a fog state.

If you let your frame develop some cracks in the armor, she starts leading to compensate for the power shift. Obviously, that's a worse case scenario.

Just stay in tune with your gut, and follow your observing ego to develop a higher intuition and lead as a man. This is the Don Juan way.

 

[Red Legg]

My end goal is to learn as much information as I possibly can,and to have as much fun in retirement as possible.

 

[wifehunter]

Having multiple end goals keeps me scarce and busy...plates get emotional when they see me, as do friends.

 

[switch7]

End goal for me is to have a passive income that would allow me to travel for the rest of my life. Maybe a couple of properties. Don't need to be rich, just enough to keep me on a sail boat, meeting new people, seeing new places and living a simple life.

There is no woman in the end game. Women come and go, I treat them as a bonus. I don't believe women/partner provide true happiness. Those who continually seek a life partner are living a life with no meaning. You must find something bigger than yourself.

 

[BeExcellent]

End goal for me is to have a passive income that would allow me to travel for the rest of my life. Maybe a couple of properties. Don't need to be rich, just enough to keep me on a sail boat, meeting new people, seeing new places and living a simple life.

There is no woman in the end game. Women come and go, I treat them as a bonus. I don't believe women/partner provide true happiness. Those who continually seek a life partner are living a life with no meaning. You must find something bigger than yourself.

The thing people find out once they reach a pinnacle in life on their own is that success & independence can be very lonesome. Life is about relationships. Almost universally people value those close to them over things & accomplishments. The trouble is that people who haven't reached the pinnacle *think* the pinnacle will satisfy them.

It won't. It can't. Only other human beings can provide you love, intimacy & companionship.

It's really ironic isn't it.

 

[resilient]

There is no woman in the end game. Women come and go, I treat them as a bonus. I don't believe women/partner provide true happiness. Those who continually seek a life partner are living a life with no meaning. You must find something bigger than yourself.

This 1000x! Passion, my brother, passion.

"Nothing endures but change." - Heraclitus