"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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What is your definition of an "a55hole" that girls like?

SamTheHobit

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I'm kinda confused on this.

Someone that just doesn't care??
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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It's a bit deeper than that Sam.

It's a guy with good looks AND is very full of himself and doesn't give two shytes about the girl. He really doesn't care because he knows puss is a dime a dozen.

EDIT: <I'm at my daily post limit.> Nothing to be sorry about Sam. There's no such thing as a stupid question. Ask anything you want.
 
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Mike32ct said:
It's a bit deeper than that Sam.

It's a guy with good looks AND is very full of himself and doesn't give two shytes about the girl. He really doesn't care because he knows puss is a dime a dozen.
That makes sense. Sorry it was a stupid question.
 

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Mike32ct said:
It's a bit deeper than that Sam.

It's a guy with good looks AND is very full of himself and doesn't give two shytes about the girl. He really doesn't care because he knows puss is a dime a dozen.
see, I was right. but Im not here to derail this thread.

anyway, Sam, by not caring I hope youre talking about the girl instead of more general things in life such as what your parents think of you and stuff like that
 

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A level of apathy associated with a guy who has plenty of options available to them. An ******* isn't phased by women and does not seek to placate them - only themselves. It can also be akin to the aloofness that comes with a guy who simply has too many options and really can't keep track of them all. Women call men *******s not so much because they shove their face in mud, but that the women actually have to initiate in some way to get them to notice.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Mike32ct said:
dime a dozen.
You must spread some Reputation around before giving it to Mike32ct again.

I've been using that phrase completely opposite my entire life. +1
 

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SamTheHobit said:
That makes sense. Sorry it was a stupid question.
It's not a stupid question, I still struggle with it @ 34 and have to remind myself to stop being a chump.

It's like a invisible line(respect line I guess) you have to create with woman. If they cross that line then they have to know you won't put up with their sh*t. You can walk and be happy finding someone else.

Had an ex say this to me, somewhat early stage of dating.
Guys are a dime a dozen. I looked at her and said and woman aren't?

My ex-wife's famous last words, you're where such a controlling self-absorb a**hole.
 
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