SamTheHobit
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I'm kinda confused on this.
Someone that just doesn't care??
Someone that just doesn't care??
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What is your definition of an "a55hole" that girls like?
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You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
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It's a bit deeper than that Sam.
It's a guy with good looks AND is very full of himself and doesn't give two shytes about the girl. He really doesn't care because he knows puss is a dime a dozen.
EDIT: <I'm at my daily post limit.> Nothing to be sorry about Sam. There's no such thing as a stupid question. Ask anything you want.
It's a guy with good looks AND is very full of himself and doesn't give two shytes about the girl. He really doesn't care because he knows puss is a dime a dozen.
EDIT: <I'm at my daily post limit.> Nothing to be sorry about Sam. There's no such thing as a stupid question. Ask anything you want.
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SamTheHobit
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That makes sense. Sorry it was a stupid question.Mike32ct said:
see, I was right. but Im not here to derail this thread.Mike32ct said:
anyway, Sam, by not caring I hope youre talking about the girl instead of more general things in life such as what your parents think of you and stuff like that
A level of apathy associated with a guy who has plenty of options available to them. An ******* isn't phased by women and does not seek to placate them - only themselves. It can also be akin to the aloofness that comes with a guy who simply has too many options and really can't keep track of them all. Women call men *******s not so much because they shove their face in mud, but that the women actually have to initiate in some way to get them to notice.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
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You must spread some Reputation around before giving it to Mike32ct again.Mike32ct said:
I've been using that phrase completely opposite my entire life. +1
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It's not a stupid question, I still struggle with it @ 34 and have to remind myself to stop being a chump.SamTheHobit said:
It's like a invisible line(respect line I guess) you have to create with woman. If they cross that line then they have to know you won't put up with their sh*t. You can walk and be happy finding someone else.
Had an ex say this to me, somewhat early stage of dating.
Guys are a dime a dozen. I looked at her and said and woman aren't?
My ex-wife's famous last words, you're where such a controlling self-absorb a**hole.
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