SamTheHobit
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I'm kinda confused on this.
Someone that just doesn't care??
Someone that just doesn't care??
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
What is your definition of an "a55hole" that girls like?
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
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It's a bit deeper than that Sam.
It's a guy with good looks AND is very full of himself and doesn't give two shytes about the girl. He really doesn't care because he knows puss is a dime a dozen.
EDIT: <I'm at my daily post limit.> Nothing to be sorry about Sam. There's no such thing as a stupid question. Ask anything you want.
It's a guy with good looks AND is very full of himself and doesn't give two shytes about the girl. He really doesn't care because he knows puss is a dime a dozen.
EDIT: <I'm at my daily post limit.> Nothing to be sorry about Sam. There's no such thing as a stupid question. Ask anything you want.
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SamTheHobit
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That makes sense. Sorry it was a stupid question.Mike32ct said:
see, I was right. but Im not here to derail this thread.Mike32ct said:
anyway, Sam, by not caring I hope youre talking about the girl instead of more general things in life such as what your parents think of you and stuff like that
A level of apathy associated with a guy who has plenty of options available to them. An ******* isn't phased by women and does not seek to placate them - only themselves. It can also be akin to the aloofness that comes with a guy who simply has too many options and really can't keep track of them all. Women call men *******s not so much because they shove their face in mud, but that the women actually have to initiate in some way to get them to notice.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
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You must spread some Reputation around before giving it to Mike32ct again.Mike32ct said:
I've been using that phrase completely opposite my entire life. +1
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It's not a stupid question, I still struggle with it @ 34 and have to remind myself to stop being a chump.SamTheHobit said:
It's like a invisible line(respect line I guess) you have to create with woman. If they cross that line then they have to know you won't put up with their sh*t. You can walk and be happy finding someone else.
Had an ex say this to me, somewhat early stage of dating.
Guys are a dime a dozen. I looked at her and said and woman aren't?
My ex-wife's famous last words, you're where such a controlling self-absorb a**hole.
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Abundance mentality