"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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What is your 1st impression of me... Honestly..

NeW2TheGame

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Hey people, well theres this mint as chick at work i met, and i've been doing what i "should" be doin, not clingy, c&f, etc.
She then sent a msg asking what was my first impression of her....should i tell her how i really feel? Or chuck a bit of c&f in there?

Thanks, need an answer by Friday >.>
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Or chuck a bit of c&f in there?
Everyone reallly has to stop answering their own questions. If you already present the solution to us, why would you try to validate it here, instead of goddamn testing it out!!

Sigh...
 

NeW2TheGame

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Guys you see...there is one bit i left out.
She said she will talk to me on friday, but she is unsure because everytime i talk to her im always teasing her, in this case, harmless teasing, hence c&f

THAT is the reason why i feel i have to ask you guys, because she might really get pissed if i chuck MORE c&f in there....but then again if i say how i really feel that is screwing myself up..........

Suggestions?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Zerotwoonenine

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just dont kiss her ass by saying i though you are the hottest girl on earth, you could compliment her, for example if she was wearing a very nice pair of earings say i remember the nice pair of earing you were wearing, it really suit your eyes, the cloth you were wearing etc, or you could just add abit of c+f in there, comment on her earings and then say her shoes were horrible, its all up to you.
Goodluck
 

crossboss

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What I would say:

I think you are worthess... then smile and touch her.

Or I don't know, its hard to say. Portrays you are something to work for.
 

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honestly, I think you are crap. J/K.

DAFS, this isn't a new subject.
 

Zerotwoonenine

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hey geeze people, didnt you lots read about that tip-even the most confident girl needs evidence to back it up sometimes- if he does c+f too much she is more likely to be alittle hurt than be more attracted to him.
Dude just go with what i told you, if she is attracted to you she will love you for it.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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