"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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What is your 1st impression of me... Honestly..

NeW2TheGame

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Hey people, well theres this mint as chick at work i met, and i've been doing what i "should" be doin, not clingy, c&f, etc.
She then sent a msg asking what was my first impression of her....should i tell her how i really feel? Or chuck a bit of c&f in there?

Thanks, need an answer by Friday >.>
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Or chuck a bit of c&f in there?
Everyone reallly has to stop answering their own questions. If you already present the solution to us, why would you try to validate it here, instead of goddamn testing it out!!

Sigh...
 

NeW2TheGame

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Guys you see...there is one bit i left out.
She said she will talk to me on friday, but she is unsure because everytime i talk to her im always teasing her, in this case, harmless teasing, hence c&f

THAT is the reason why i feel i have to ask you guys, because she might really get pissed if i chuck MORE c&f in there....but then again if i say how i really feel that is screwing myself up..........

Suggestions?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Zerotwoonenine

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just dont kiss her ass by saying i though you are the hottest girl on earth, you could compliment her, for example if she was wearing a very nice pair of earings say i remember the nice pair of earing you were wearing, it really suit your eyes, the cloth you were wearing etc, or you could just add abit of c+f in there, comment on her earings and then say her shoes were horrible, its all up to you.
Goodluck
 

crossboss

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What I would say:

I think you are worthess... then smile and touch her.

Or I don't know, its hard to say. Portrays you are something to work for.
 

wavejams007

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honestly, I think you are crap. J/K.

DAFS, this isn't a new subject.
 

Zerotwoonenine

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hey geeze people, didnt you lots read about that tip-even the most confident girl needs evidence to back it up sometimes- if he does c+f too much she is more likely to be alittle hurt than be more attracted to him.
Dude just go with what i told you, if she is attracted to you she will love you for it.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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