"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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What is your 1st impression of me... Honestly..

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Hey people, well theres this mint as chick at work i met, and i've been doing what i "should" be doin, not clingy, c&f, etc.
She then sent a msg asking what was my first impression of her....should i tell her how i really feel? Or chuck a bit of c&f in there?

Thanks, need an answer by Friday >.>
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Or chuck a bit of c&f in there?
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Everyone reallly has to stop answering their own questions. If you already present the solution to us, why would you try to validate it here, instead of goddamn testing it out!!

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Guys you see...there is one bit i left out.
She said she will talk to me on friday, but she is unsure because everytime i talk to her im always teasing her, in this case, harmless teasing, hence c&f

THAT is the reason why i feel i have to ask you guys, because she might really get pissed if i chuck MORE c&f in there....but then again if i say how i really feel that is screwing myself up..........

Suggestions?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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just dont kiss her ass by saying i though you are the hottest girl on earth, you could compliment her, for example if she was wearing a very nice pair of earings say i remember the nice pair of earing you were wearing, it really suit your eyes, the cloth you were wearing etc, or you could just add abit of c+f in there, comment on her earings and then say her shoes were horrible, its all up to you.
Goodluck
 
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What I would say:

I think you are worthess... then smile and touch her.

Or I don't know, its hard to say. Portrays you are something to work for.
 
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honestly, I think you are crap. J/K.

DAFS, this isn't a new subject.
 
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hey geeze people, didnt you lots read about that tip-even the most confident girl needs evidence to back it up sometimes- if he does c+f too much she is more likely to be alittle hurt than be more attracted to him.
Dude just go with what i told you, if she is attracted to you she will love you for it.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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