jonny football hero
Master Don Juan
What are your main problems with approaching women?
Write them in here, and let's see if we can work them out.
Write them in here, and let's see if we can work them out.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
What is you main problem?
- Thread starter jonny football hero
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“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
InsidiousNstinct
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Usually trying to keep the convo going. I've learned though that short conversations with new people is good. Keeps you a lil mysterious.
I'm guessing noone else is posting because their all great at approaching women, or they never approach. Hmmm...I think its the latter..
I'm guessing noone else is posting because their all great at approaching women, or they never approach. Hmmm...I think its the latter..
Supero Masculus
Don Juan
My main problem is falling for the seducer and getting burned for it later. One time at my friends house i was over at one of his parties (no alchohol or anything) and his sister was giving me all the right signals, i fell for em, came on to strong and got burned.
It wasn't until later that i realized that i totally missed the piont of being a challenge and remaining that way.
It wasn't until later that i realized that i totally missed the piont of being a challenge and remaining that way.
The main problem I have is not remaining a challenge. Short convos at the beginning are great but I also like to add in some longer convos every once ina while to make me look more mysterious. I fall too fast and put a lot of importance on pre date convos when I know I shouldn't. That's really my main problem.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Shiraz
Don Juan
The problem i have is im to shy LOL YEH, im gonna try and talk to some girls tommrow my best lets see how it goes im gonna try and get a hug from the fittest girl in the school lets see if i can talk to her first lol
jonny football hero
Master Don Juan
Your main problem seems to be conversation. I had great difficulty with that one (until recently). This is going to sound cliche, but the only thing you can do is practice.
Here's a good excersize to try out. Go into a clothes shop, into the womans section, find a hot assistant and tell them your buying clothes for a girlfriend of yours, ask her whats in style and ask her to pick some clothes out (you don't have to buy them), then just drop something in like "she's in need of new clothes, she's going on holiday, to!place! and shes really excited, it supposed to be really nice", then ask her if she's ever been. She'll talk for ages. don't try for a number close unless you feel 100% that she will say yes. after all, this is practice.
The thing with conversation is that get them on the right topic and women ramble on for ages. For instance i got one girl onto holidays, she couldn't shut up for 10 mins!
If she seems short. So what? Leave. practice on some-one else until this conversation thing is as easy as jerking off.
Here's a good excersize to try out. Go into a clothes shop, into the womans section, find a hot assistant and tell them your buying clothes for a girlfriend of yours, ask her whats in style and ask her to pick some clothes out (you don't have to buy them), then just drop something in like "she's in need of new clothes, she's going on holiday, to!place! and shes really excited, it supposed to be really nice", then ask her if she's ever been. She'll talk for ages. don't try for a number close unless you feel 100% that she will say yes. after all, this is practice.
The thing with conversation is that get them on the right topic and women ramble on for ages. For instance i got one girl onto holidays, she couldn't shut up for 10 mins!
If she seems short. So what? Leave. practice on some-one else until this conversation thing is as easy as jerking off.
for me finding the right one, having less time talking to the girl the higher the sucess rate, when you talk keep it simple, stay cool dont be astonished by her hot looks, and dont feel bad when you get rejected. its a part of life.