jonny football hero
Master Don Juan
What are your main problems with approaching women?
Write them in here, and let's see if we can work them out.
Write them in here, and let's see if we can work them out.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
What is you main problem?
- Thread starter jonny football hero
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
InsidiousNstinct
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Usually trying to keep the convo going. I've learned though that short conversations with new people is good. Keeps you a lil mysterious.
I'm guessing noone else is posting because their all great at approaching women, or they never approach. Hmmm...I think its the latter..
I'm guessing noone else is posting because their all great at approaching women, or they never approach. Hmmm...I think its the latter..
Supero Masculus
Don Juan
My main problem is falling for the seducer and getting burned for it later. One time at my friends house i was over at one of his parties (no alchohol or anything) and his sister was giving me all the right signals, i fell for em, came on to strong and got burned.
It wasn't until later that i realized that i totally missed the piont of being a challenge and remaining that way.
It wasn't until later that i realized that i totally missed the piont of being a challenge and remaining that way.
The main problem I have is not remaining a challenge. Short convos at the beginning are great but I also like to add in some longer convos every once ina while to make me look more mysterious. I fall too fast and put a lot of importance on pre date convos when I know I shouldn't. That's really my main problem.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Shiraz
Don Juan
The problem i have is im to shy LOL YEH, im gonna try and talk to some girls tommrow my best lets see how it goes im gonna try and get a hug from the fittest girl in the school lets see if i can talk to her first lol
jonny football hero
Master Don Juan
Your main problem seems to be conversation. I had great difficulty with that one (until recently). This is going to sound cliche, but the only thing you can do is practice.
Here's a good excersize to try out. Go into a clothes shop, into the womans section, find a hot assistant and tell them your buying clothes for a girlfriend of yours, ask her whats in style and ask her to pick some clothes out (you don't have to buy them), then just drop something in like "she's in need of new clothes, she's going on holiday, to!place! and shes really excited, it supposed to be really nice", then ask her if she's ever been. She'll talk for ages. don't try for a number close unless you feel 100% that she will say yes. after all, this is practice.
The thing with conversation is that get them on the right topic and women ramble on for ages. For instance i got one girl onto holidays, she couldn't shut up for 10 mins!
If she seems short. So what? Leave. practice on some-one else until this conversation thing is as easy as jerking off.
Here's a good excersize to try out. Go into a clothes shop, into the womans section, find a hot assistant and tell them your buying clothes for a girlfriend of yours, ask her whats in style and ask her to pick some clothes out (you don't have to buy them), then just drop something in like "she's in need of new clothes, she's going on holiday, to!place! and shes really excited, it supposed to be really nice", then ask her if she's ever been. She'll talk for ages. don't try for a number close unless you feel 100% that she will say yes. after all, this is practice.
The thing with conversation is that get them on the right topic and women ramble on for ages. For instance i got one girl onto holidays, she couldn't shut up for 10 mins!
If she seems short. So what? Leave. practice on some-one else until this conversation thing is as easy as jerking off.
for me finding the right one, having less time talking to the girl the higher the sucess rate, when you talk keep it simple, stay cool dont be astonished by her hot looks, and dont feel bad when you get rejected. its a part of life.