What is wrong with her??

[Bamaboi]

Follow up from this post from Saturday
https://www.sosuave.net/forum/threads/young-chick-uggh.256418/#post-2614169

To back track..got back in touch with this chick last monday after NC for a week..(Wednesday) we met up that week and smoked..she hit me the next day (Thursday) wanting to link but i had some else going on , she was like " Okay". Friday i texted her and she said she could get up with me that night..called her later and she answered the phone like " Who is this?"..as if she aint know it was..she was real serious..i was threw off at first..i told her quit playin..she still asked "who is this?" ( I can tell she was around another dude cause she was clearly actin playin it off in front of whoever she was around) ..she then hung up...i called back twice no answer...so i text her 10 min later and told her im headed to her crib and told her to be ready , she said " Okay hold on im not there yet"...i told her to head there now..she said " Okay wtf did i just say"..i asked her how long its gone be and she aint never replied or none..

(Saturday) she then texted me around 10pm that night saying " wyd"....i aint texted her back till (Monday 28th) with " Wassup, i think imma have to beat yo ass how you be playin wit me "..she replied 2 hrs later " U not gone do ****"..Me: " All dese dudes in the way you cant even focus on what I'm trying to do"...she said " Anyways wyd tonight ill be back home"...i asked her around about what time..she just read it..aint never reply.. That was monday..im lost ..i dont understand why she tells me she can meet up but wont follow through..in person her vibe is not like that...is she doing this **** on purpose???

Im gone hit her up probally tomorrow if its still the same **** im leaving her and "January" behind..tired of this ****

 

[sazc]

Paging @LARaiders85

 

[Bamaboi]

She using you for attention and doing it on purpose. How can you be confused by that when you know for a fact shes with other guys?

Why is she doing it on purpose??

 

[Bamaboi]

Its like she feels obligated to grant my wishes , which i like..but why she not following through??

 

[backseatjuan]

Don’t be a bigdave. I clicked on your link and there is a link in that link to another link. Man. It’t not too complicated to realize that if it’s complicated then it’s way too complicated. Stop wasting you time. Write it on your hand so you can look it up next time.

 

[BJP1991]

She's clearly just jerking you around

 

[Bamaboi]

She's clearly just jerking you around

Why?? What do i need to do to fix it

 

[mrgoodstuff]

Bamaboi. Shes doing that because thats what she wants to do.

 

[Bamaboi]

I kind of see why cats back in the day used to beat women..a chick like this clearly needs to get her ass kicked...situations like this

 

[marmel75]

Maybe if I understood half of what was being sent back and forth I could offer an opinion

 

[mrgoodstuff]

I kind of see why cats back in the day used to beat women..a chick like this clearly needs to get her ass kicked...situations like this

You disrespecting yourself for putting up with it. Women and other people are going to do what theyre going to do. You dont have to deal with them.

 

[BJP1991]

Why?? What do i need to do to fix it

Do nothing - pursue other women and let this girl fall in wherever she fits. She should be lower than your lowest priority.

 

[BJP1991]

I kind of see why cats back in the day used to beat women..a chick like this clearly needs to get her ass kicked...situations like this

You're putting way too much onto this one girl. You're acting a fool if you let her jerk you around like this. She is clearly seeing other dudes - let her come and go as she pleases. You must be just as happy if you don't have her, as if you do.