Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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What is with all the girls having sex with guys threads?

Strelok

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So this is the thread where anyone brag about being a cool guy that had lot of girls so he don't care if the town slut is kissing his own children?
Add some shaming in the mix and you're fine.

Do we complain about sluts cause we don't want wastes? of course not it's because we're all virgin,except of course some cool guys up there that all happen to be alpha/bad boys/dj or whatever.
If you fvcked 100 girls and she fvcked 50men and had a couple og gangbangs you're fine having a LTR with her cause you had more than her?
Please tell me how you can afford it because my instinct make me see repulsive any girl like that.

It's because of guys supporting this bullsh1t that girls behave the way they want.
It seems to hear some AFC and their woman rights policy in the hope of getting some points with girls.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I see some of this attitude of women > men. If that is the case, then that is not the woman's fault.
 

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Strelok said:
If you fvcked 100 girls and she fvcked 50men and had a couple og gangbangs you're fine having a LTR with her cause you had more than her?
Please tell me how you can afford it because my instinct make me see repulsive any girl like that.
Well one thing about the one woman who has fvcked 50 will never tell you the honest number and unless you live in a small town and everybody talks, how would you know? So how you going to know?

There is a big difference in having sex with her and having a long lasting relationship with her.

When I was a lot younger I would discuss sexual partners with potential women, but as I aged I knew better. The older I got the more my partners grew and I am sure it happens for a lot of women.

On the other side of the coin you have a sheltered type woman who was married for 20 years and for most of the time was unhappy, but remained faithful for the most part. Then she wants to be young again and either divorces and starts screwing everything or starts cheating with anybody.

The stuff I have seen never fails to amaze me.

Like I posted in another thread, I was having sex with a woman then later found out she did four dudes at once. I stopped seeing her altogether because she was in fact a HOE! I never considered her long term anyways, but I could not get my head wrapped around 4 at once.
 

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SoldMySoul said:
Like I posted in another thread, I was having sex with a woman then later found out she did four dudes at once. I stopped seeing her altogether because she was in fact a HOE! I never considered her long term anyways, but I could not get my head wrapped around 4 at once.
I don't really care so much if a woman did wild things in the past. But if she did such and such for other men then she better be ready to do it for me as well. Otherwise screw her. I'm not investing heavily in a woman who gave 100% for men in the past, but now expects me to give more and get less in return. This is what a lot of these women seem to expect when they get older.
 

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PappyS said:
I don't really care so much if a woman did wild things in the past. But if she did such and such for other men then she better be ready to do it for me as well. Otherwise screw her. I'm not investing heavily in a woman who gave 100% for men in the past, but now expects me to give more and get less in return. This is what a lot of these women seem to expect when they get older.

That goes without saying. Like if you found out she used to do threesomes with two women and one guy. There is an expectation that she should do that with you too if you so desire. You could have the reformed version of her and she cleaned her act up. As long as everything else was on point with her, would this be a deal breaker if she would not engage in a three way with you? That would be tough decide because you are in the mentality zone, "HEY! She used to have this fun and she will not with me. What is wrong with me?" Yeah that could screw with you a bit, I agree.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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