"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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What is with all the girls having sex with guys threads?

Strelok

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So this is the thread where anyone brag about being a cool guy that had lot of girls so he don't care if the town slut is kissing his own children?
Add some shaming in the mix and you're fine.

Do we complain about sluts cause we don't want wastes? of course not it's because we're all virgin,except of course some cool guys up there that all happen to be alpha/bad boys/dj or whatever.
If you fvcked 100 girls and she fvcked 50men and had a couple og gangbangs you're fine having a LTR with her cause you had more than her?
Please tell me how you can afford it because my instinct make me see repulsive any girl like that.

It's because of guys supporting this bullsh1t that girls behave the way they want.
It seems to hear some AFC and their woman rights policy in the hope of getting some points with girls.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I see some of this attitude of women > men. If that is the case, then that is not the woman's fault.
 

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Strelok said:
If you fvcked 100 girls and she fvcked 50men and had a couple og gangbangs you're fine having a LTR with her cause you had more than her?
Please tell me how you can afford it because my instinct make me see repulsive any girl like that.
Well one thing about the one woman who has fvcked 50 will never tell you the honest number and unless you live in a small town and everybody talks, how would you know? So how you going to know?

There is a big difference in having sex with her and having a long lasting relationship with her.

When I was a lot younger I would discuss sexual partners with potential women, but as I aged I knew better. The older I got the more my partners grew and I am sure it happens for a lot of women.

On the other side of the coin you have a sheltered type woman who was married for 20 years and for most of the time was unhappy, but remained faithful for the most part. Then she wants to be young again and either divorces and starts screwing everything or starts cheating with anybody.

The stuff I have seen never fails to amaze me.

Like I posted in another thread, I was having sex with a woman then later found out she did four dudes at once. I stopped seeing her altogether because she was in fact a HOE! I never considered her long term anyways, but I could not get my head wrapped around 4 at once.
 

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SoldMySoul said:
Like I posted in another thread, I was having sex with a woman then later found out she did four dudes at once. I stopped seeing her altogether because she was in fact a HOE! I never considered her long term anyways, but I could not get my head wrapped around 4 at once.
I don't really care so much if a woman did wild things in the past. But if she did such and such for other men then she better be ready to do it for me as well. Otherwise screw her. I'm not investing heavily in a woman who gave 100% for men in the past, but now expects me to give more and get less in return. This is what a lot of these women seem to expect when they get older.
 

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PappyS said:
I don't really care so much if a woman did wild things in the past. But if she did such and such for other men then she better be ready to do it for me as well. Otherwise screw her. I'm not investing heavily in a woman who gave 100% for men in the past, but now expects me to give more and get less in return. This is what a lot of these women seem to expect when they get older.

That goes without saying. Like if you found out she used to do threesomes with two women and one guy. There is an expectation that she should do that with you too if you so desire. You could have the reformed version of her and she cleaned her act up. As long as everything else was on point with her, would this be a deal breaker if she would not engage in a three way with you? That would be tough decide because you are in the mentality zone, "HEY! She used to have this fun and she will not with me. What is wrong with me?" Yeah that could screw with you a bit, I agree.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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