"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
What is the real average penis size
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
My last LTR told me I was the biggest she ever saw (and had been with about 40 guys).
But get this: she thought the average was 8 inches and that I was 10 inches. Why? For the same reason she can't parallel park: because all her life men have lied to her about what 8 inches looks like.
old_skoolr
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Dont be caught up with d.ick size unless yours is super tiny. Gotta offer more in bed the just a big d1ck
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Infern0
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Yeah i'm about 7.5, or slightly more, and a girl i slept with recently who had a kill count over 50 said i was one of the biggest she'd ever seen, she said a fair bit smaller was average. Before i'd slept with her she asked me what the average was and i said 6" so she checked it on a ruler and was like nah that's pretty small. LOL they have no idea.
I have to say though, until pretty recently i was terrible in bed so size isn't everything, back then guys a lot smaller than me would have been way better in bed
Huffman
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At some point she was saying "Oh my god I would never date someone with a small penis... really that's so bad! How could he satisfy you? Don't you agree??"
Her friends: "eh.... well...." (embarassed)
Her: "Anyway, is it true that EVERY guy has measured his penis once? Oh my god that's so GROSS!!"
I chime in: "Of course it's true! Naturally!"
Her: "Eww that's gross!!"
Me: "So don't tell me you've never measured your breasts before."
Her: "Well, no I haven't!"
My friend has a stroke of genius: "Then you're wearing the wrong bra size!"
Me, looking at her boobs: "Yeah, you should buy a new one"
That shut her down for good
EyeBRollin
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You can't change your penis size without drugs, so why do you care? The penis serves one function. Most of her pleasure comes from how you make her feel emotionally.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Eh, I'm asian - so my 4 inch dragon is way ragin'
marmel75
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And if you understand how to properly manipulate angles you can make it feel much bigger...once again, most guys are terrible at sex.
I think if most guys put some work into learning how to be better they'd find out there is a LOT of technical stuff you can do to improve very quickly
dustmuffin
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Maximus Rex
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
BeExcellent
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That is all that matters.
raider87
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Teach me please.
marmel75
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Go torrent and watch 2 Women Teach Sex...2 porn stars spend 12 hours teaching you everything there is to know...best thing any dude could ever spend 12 hours learning
Dingo
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That's f'd up... lol
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.