You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Yeah i'm about 7.5, or slightly more, and a girl i slept with recently who had a kill count over 50 said i was one of the biggest she'd ever seen, she said a fair bit smaller was average. Before i'd slept with her she asked me what the average was and i said 6" so she checked it on a ruler and was like nah that's pretty small. LOL they have no idea.The average penis size is 6 inches. Mine is 8 inches.
My last LTR told me I was the biggest she ever saw (and had been with about 40 guys).
But get this: she thought the average was 8 inches and that I was 10 inches. Why? For the same reason she can't parallel park: because all her life men have lied to her about what 8 inches looks like.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Eh, I'm asian - so my 4 inch dragon is way ragin'Statistically across all races, 5" is average
And if you understand how to properly manipulate angles you can make it feel much bigger...once again, most guys are terrible at sex.No matter what your size is, understand that penis size is significantly less important to most women, than who the man is that it belongs to, and how she feels when she is with him.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Teach me please.I think if most guys put some work into learning how to be better they'd find out there is a LOT of technical stuff you can do to improve very quickly
Go torrent and watch 2 Women Teach Sex...2 porn stars spend 12 hours teaching you everything there is to know...best thing any dude could ever spend 12 hours learningTeach me please.
That's f'd up... lolNow a single mom stripper I dated, the minute she felt it, somehow felt compelled to tell me that her ex-fiancée was WAY bigger. That was a warning sign. At least the third. But I told her I was only half way turned on by her.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.