"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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What is the POST-SEX Contact Etiquette?

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So lets say that you get a girls number and take her out a couple times.

The first date you make out and grab dem titties

The second date she touches the d

The third date things get hot and heavy and y'all fvck.

After sex, what would be your strategy for contacting her? What is your POST-SEX contact etiquette?

Give a different answer for different goals (i.e. you only want her as a fvck buddy, or you want her as girlfriend)

I'll be interested to hear the answers :)
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Shorten your time span and just grab her hand and put it on your D on date one. She will love your sexual confidence, trust me. It's worked every time I've tried it.
 
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I rarely initiate contact but anyways

If I only want a fcuk buddy, let her initiate (they almost always do) if she doesn't, I'll text her after a week to come over, I'll cook.

If I want her as a girlfriend, I'll probably call her 4 days after to schedule another date (if she doesn't initiate before)
 
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I agree with stevo. I never initiate. I only have f buddies. The frame is...I care just enough about you to talk to you if you're horny. Beyond that, leave me alone.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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There is no "etiquette". Things like "etiquette" are for beta sheep.

If you're a strong man who isn't afraid of "screwing up" because you need female validation.. then you will do whatever the hell you want after sex. Do you WANT to see her the next day? If so.. call her up and f*ck her brains out again.

Your job as the man is to get laid. That is your only job. Bonding and building a relationship is the woman's job. If she wants to keep you around she needs to SELL the relationship to you. All you have to do is keep f*cking her.

Men have made the game too complex by doing two very stupid things over the last few decades:
1. Seeking approval from women
2. Letting women dictate the rules of relationships

When you live by your own rules you always win. When you follow other's rules you always lose.. PLUS you become a pathetic, kiss-ass, slave in the process. Which is what most "boyfriends" and "husbands" are today.
 
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