"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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What is the POST-SEX Contact Etiquette?

narcissist

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So lets say that you get a girls number and take her out a couple times.

The first date you make out and grab dem titties

The second date she touches the d

The third date things get hot and heavy and y'all fvck.

After sex, what would be your strategy for contacting her? What is your POST-SEX contact etiquette?

Give a different answer for different goals (i.e. you only want her as a fvck buddy, or you want her as girlfriend)

I'll be interested to hear the answers :)
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Shorten your time span and just grab her hand and put it on your D on date one. She will love your sexual confidence, trust me. It's worked every time I've tried it.
 

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I rarely initiate contact but anyways

If I only want a fcuk buddy, let her initiate (they almost always do) if she doesn't, I'll text her after a week to come over, I'll cook.

If I want her as a girlfriend, I'll probably call her 4 days after to schedule another date (if she doesn't initiate before)
 

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I agree with stevo. I never initiate. I only have f buddies. The frame is...I care just enough about you to talk to you if you're horny. Beyond that, leave me alone.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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There is no "etiquette". Things like "etiquette" are for beta sheep.

If you're a strong man who isn't afraid of "screwing up" because you need female validation.. then you will do whatever the hell you want after sex. Do you WANT to see her the next day? If so.. call her up and f*ck her brains out again.

Your job as the man is to get laid. That is your only job. Bonding and building a relationship is the woman's job. If she wants to keep you around she needs to SELL the relationship to you. All you have to do is keep f*cking her.

Men have made the game too complex by doing two very stupid things over the last few decades:
1. Seeking approval from women
2. Letting women dictate the rules of relationships

When you live by your own rules you always win. When you follow other's rules you always lose.. PLUS you become a pathetic, kiss-ass, slave in the process. Which is what most "boyfriends" and "husbands" are today.
 
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