"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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What is the point of making social connections?

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I go out down town enough that I know some guys who own bars, are well-known bartenders, etc.

I feel no desire to make friends with these people and have had ample opportunity.

I mean, if they're nice guys, I'll say "hey" to them while I'm there, but I'm not looking to use them to climb the social ladder. I don't give a fvck if you're some small-time DJ or anything like that, it isn't important in my life. I'm beginning to realize how fake the entire down town scene actually is, but unfortunately, it's the place to be.

Other notes to add: When I go out, I see that probably 95% of girls/women out there are not worth my time and it's not worth getting to know/putting up with their **** just for a chance at sticking my **** in them. I'd almost rather sit by myself.

I'm not sure what the purpose of this post is other than to ramble. It's Friday and I didn't go out because I slept all day. I generally don't like going out on Fridays and Saturdays because it's too crowded and filled with idiots. I much prefer Tuesdays, Sundays, etc.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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bigneil

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Ooh, you've had the opportunity to become friends with bartenders?

You're too good for them.

However, it does help when you take a date out and she sees that other men and women like you and know you by name.
 

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I do rideshare around UCI...lots of interesting smart people....try a near by college!

Plus, the chicks are smoking Hot hot hot!!!!:p
 
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