Im gonna read the DJ Bible, so my question is how should i start? should i read what i suck at the most... or just read the whole package? someof you guys says that alotof what have been writted in DJ bible isBULL**** and not true etc.. whic thread is that?
“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
WHat is the best way to read the dj bible?
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
It's not that what's in the DJB is BS... it's just that a lot of it is unnecessary. Also, there is a fair amount of conflicting information in the DJB, which can confuse people. I'd say a good start would be to read anything labelled "Must Read". After that, if you still have any unanswered questions, browse the other links in the DJB and try to find your answers there. However, the "Conversation" section of the DJB is crap, IMO. Go to http://www.charismaarts.com instead and read the blogs there.
There's a link at the top-left that says "Get involved: blogs, audio, and forum". Click there, and then select one of the names listed at the top right. Not all of the blogs have advice in them, but the ones that do have very good stuff.
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Sean O said:
AHAHAHAHA!!!
Charisma Arts!!
LOL!
You're such a tool dude.
Good luck with that! :crackup: :crackup:
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
...I think you may be having a little too much fun with that one, CMD. Either that, or you're just really easy to amuse. Just chillax, man 
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Anyway, I directed Sacrifice to charisma arts because the advice given in some of the blogs is much more general and easier to apply than the stuff in the conversation section of the DJB. And I've found that it works far better, anyway. Having said that, you sound reasonably certain that I'm a "tool" for leading him there, so why don't you give him some better advice instead? Grace us with your divine wisdom, Daddy!
.Anyway, I directed Sacrifice to charisma arts because the advice given in some of the blogs is much more general and easier to apply than the stuff in the conversation section of the DJB. And I've found that it works far better, anyway. Having said that, you sound reasonably certain that I'm a "tool" for leading him there, so why don't you give him some better advice instead? Grace us with your divine wisdom, Daddy!
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No thanks. There is already so much flying around. Just read and learn and observe and don't take anything as definite or gospel.Sean O said:
However watch out for heavily marketed crap like "Charisma Arts" and other seminars. They are intended to make money, so they water down the information and they give it to you a little at a time leaving you to come back for more. And they don't give you the whole picture anyway (there's a reason for this).
The best thing you can do is find a player/DJ working the field in your area that you admire and learn from him.
Not from some marketing gurus wanting to sell seminars and books and DVDs and tapes and t-shirts and.... more expensive junk. If you want to fall for that, then: :crackup: .
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I agree with call me daddy I would only take a bootcamp as last resort. I thought about it because I wanted to and I figured if they can do it so can I, god damn it.
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Hindsight biases are in play too. People internalize stuff in DJB,PUA materials,etc, then later say "it's all common sense man!" Or "I don't do anything and I attract women like mad". There is an eventual internalization that occurs and small changes in peer groups/lifestyle/attitude create a new effect regarding how the world treats you. Your mind registers all that and within a year or two, the old person is pretty much dead. It's something that silently happens, and I don't think a lot of guys even realize it occured.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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Speculation based on history. I like to study the world of business. Stuff like marketing, fluctuations in stocks, trends, etc. Its a hobby of mine.Slevin said:
I'm not going to write this all out for you. But if you want some proof: dig up some of those threads by David Deangelo. They show the decline of the quality of his products over the years starting with Double Your Dating. You'll also find stuff by Mystery, Thundercat, and other gurus selling "top notch dating advice" for more proof.
I'm not posting it up, but feel free to post some if you have the time so all may see.
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Needed a rewrite... makes me look like I'm "talking out of my ass". A real argument has proof which I had to include.Slevin said:
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
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Take the names and put them into the "search box" and presto! Like magic!Slevin said:
Here it is again if you missed it the first time:
Dig up some of those threads by David Deangelo. They show the decline of the quality of his products over the years starting with Double Your Dating. You'll also find stuff by Mystery, Thundercat, and other gurus selling "top notch dating advice".
How about I look up Juggler instead?Call_Me_Daddy said:
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=23562
Read my post again, CMD. I never said that Sacrifice should pay for the seminars. In fact, I'd advise him not to, since plenty of people have learned to succeed with women without spending all that money. All I said was that he should look at the blogs for advice on conversation. After reading both the conversation section of the DJB and the blogs on that site, I've found that the blogs offer much better and more practical advice on conversation than the DJB does, even if the blogs are "watered down".
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Just read the damn thing most of it wont even apply to you. Stop asking stupid questions and just do it !!!