"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
What is the best way to invite yourself back to HER PLACE to chill?
- Thread starter Zero Hero
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LA_Chico
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If you want to be invited up to her place, ask her about it. Ask stuff like how many rooms does she have, how does the kitchen look like, how is the view from her place, how does her room like you etc.... the more you ask about it, the more interested you seem to be and in the end of it you say something " hmmm sounds like you live in an interesting place, I wouldn't mind seeing it with my own eyes" and most likely you will get an invitation.Zero Hero said:
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Read it again. He wants the chick to ask him over to her place. You should tell the truth (it's the easiest thing to remember) and let her know off the bat your situation. If she's not cool with you hanging at her place don't make any excuses or cry about it just tell her you'll have her at your new and improved place when you can. Don't pressure her or you'll look like a fvcking sissymary who is fvcking clingy. Then you have zero chance at anything other than a hug.LA_Chico said:
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"So when are you going to invite me over to see your place?"
If you want to be a little less direct, you could make up somethin
"My roommates are driving me crazy! I need to get out of here!"
or just
"I really feel like getting out of here. Mind if I stop by your place for a bit?"
however if you invite yourself over, don't stay long unless things are going really well. pay attention to her body language and her mood.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.