"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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What is the best way to invite yourself back to HER PLACE to chill?

Zero Hero

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After you go out and it's going over smooth....if you don't have a place, how do you invite yourself to her place? I always have trouble with this....even when it works, it doesn't seem right.
 

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LA_Chico

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bro just say "wanna come over and chill?"
 

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Zero Hero said:
After you go out and it's going over smooth....if you don't have a place, how do you invite yourself to her place? I always have trouble with this....even when it works, it doesn't seem right.
If you want to be invited up to her place, ask her about it. Ask stuff like how many rooms does she have, how does the kitchen look like, how is the view from her place, how does her room like you etc.... the more you ask about it, the more interested you seem to be and in the end of it you say something " hmmm sounds like you live in an interesting place, I wouldn't mind seeing it with my own eyes" and most likely you will get an invitation.
 

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LA_Chico said:
bro just say "wanna come over and chill?"
Read it again. He wants the chick to ask him over to her place. You should tell the truth (it's the easiest thing to remember) and let her know off the bat your situation. If she's not cool with you hanging at her place don't make any excuses or cry about it just tell her you'll have her at your new and improved place when you can. Don't pressure her or you'll look like a fvcking sissymary who is fvcking clingy. Then you have zero chance at anything other than a hug.
 

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I would just be blatant about it.

"So when are you going to invite me over to see your place?"

If you want to be a little less direct, you could make up somethin

"My roommates are driving me crazy! I need to get out of here!"

or just

"I really feel like getting out of here. Mind if I stop by your place for a bit?"



however if you invite yourself over, don't stay long unless things are going really well. pay attention to her body language and her mood.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

Read more...

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