aballer2323
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Gentlemen, am I reading too much into things, or is she hinting at something?
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
what is she saying here?
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Fly By Night
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Make a move on her, just don't say you actually read up on pick up and such, she might use that as something to hold over your head.
Come across as a natural.
Come across as a natural.
HalfPUAHalfAFC
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"I'm interested in pick up culture... Please don't tell anyone."
"I don't believe you. But if I did, I wouldn't tell a soul."
"I don't believe you. But if I did, I wouldn't tell a soul."
aballer2323
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Lol you guys are pros at this.HalfPUAHalfAFC said:
JohnChops
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You over analyzed the situation. Let it.happen. Should've just made a move with a smile. She wouldn't have minded
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
She is hitting on you. Move on this one real quick, because girls can lose interest fast if you don't pick up on this. They sometimes think that they looked like an idiot for saying what they did and will pull right back.aballer2323 said:
If you don't do anything about this, you will look back on it in a couple years time and kick yourself. Believe me, I've got a few memories like that.