aballer2323
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Gentlemen, am I reading too much into things, or is she hinting at something?
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
what is she saying here?
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Fly By Night
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Make a move on her, just don't say you actually read up on pick up and such, she might use that as something to hold over your head.
Come across as a natural.
Come across as a natural.
HalfPUAHalfAFC
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"I'm interested in pick up culture... Please don't tell anyone."
"I don't believe you. But if I did, I wouldn't tell a soul."
"I don't believe you. But if I did, I wouldn't tell a soul."
aballer2323
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Lol you guys are pros at this.HalfPUAHalfAFC said:
JohnChops
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You over analyzed the situation. Let it.happen. Should've just made a move with a smile. She wouldn't have minded
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
She is hitting on you. Move on this one real quick, because girls can lose interest fast if you don't pick up on this. They sometimes think that they looked like an idiot for saying what they did and will pull right back.aballer2323 said:
If you don't do anything about this, you will look back on it in a couple years time and kick yourself. Believe me, I've got a few memories like that.