"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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what is she saying here?

aballer2323

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Gentlemen, am I reading too much into things, or is she hinting at something?
 
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Fly By Night

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Make a move on her, just don't say you actually read up on pick up and such, she might use that as something to hold over your head.

Come across as a natural. :)
 

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"I'm interested in pick up culture... Please don't tell anyone."

"I don't believe you. But if I did, I wouldn't tell a soul."
 

aballer2323

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HalfPUAHalfAFC said:
"I'm interested in pick up culture... Please don't tell anyone."

"I don't believe you. But if I did, I wouldn't tell a soul."
Lol you guys are pros at this.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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aballer2323 said:
We were just chatting up about school starting up again and she was pretty flirty/suggestive the whole time and then she drops this line on me: "I'm actually pretty interested in the hookup culture, but pleasee don't tell anyone!"
She is hitting on you. Move on this one real quick, because girls can lose interest fast if you don't pick up on this. They sometimes think that they looked like an idiot for saying what they did and will pull right back.

If you don't do anything about this, you will look back on it in a couple years time and kick yourself. Believe me, I've got a few memories like that.
 
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