"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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What is she actually saying?

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She texted this: "looking into each others souls on that one fateful night" I don't know why you keep texting things like that. I have a boyfriend and I dont know you. and I don't know why you keep implying that i like you or something? yeah sorry if i sound harsh, but this needs to stop..

What should I do? Her actions tell me otherwise: when class ended she was looking at me when I was lingering near the exit possibly waiting for me to make a move. When I was break dancing outside of school i knew she was watching. When I first approached her she had high interest; strong eye contact, smiling. I just forgot to connect so she probably thinks Im a player.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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SIMPLE ANSWER NEXT HER SHE AIN'T INTERESTED. A chick can be interested in you at first but what sometimes if you don't make a move fast enough she will "stop considering" you and go back to what she had. MOVE ON and flirt with other chicks, the best way to get a chick back into you is to make her jealous and SHOW her what she is missing out on.
 
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ghostrider943 said:
She texted this: "looking into each others souls on that one fateful night" I don't know why you keep texting things like that. I have a boyfriend and I dont know you. and I don't know why you keep implying that i like you or something? yeah sorry if i sound harsh, but this needs to stop..

What should I do? Her actions tell me otherwise: when class ended she was looking at me when I was lingering near the exit possibly waiting for me to make a move. When I was break dancing outside of school i knew she was watching. When I first approached her she had high interest; strong eye contact, smiling. I just forgot to connect so she probably thinks Im a player.
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Hopefully you didn't pull that line in quotes through a text message
 
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just stay away from her. She obviously doesn't like you. There's nothing else to say except that you're being an idiot thinking you still have a shot.
 
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ghostrider943 said:
when class ended she was looking at me when I was lingering near the exit possibly waiting for me to make a move.
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That's spider activity right there. Never linger by a door waiting for a girl to have to pass by you so you can make a move. Not good.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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This is the answer to the whole situation.

First off, you texted that quote? :eek: You deserve a slap in the face! And you are grounded!

That may have made the girl get less interested and try to stand you up.

Next this b**ch. QUICKLY!!!

Why, you ask? Like Dongfu said, that waiting by the door sh*t to make a move, don't ever do that again. :nono: That can make a girl feel uncomfortable. I smell b**ch shields!!!:box:

And stop thinking you have a shot with this one. You don't. Point blank. Being persistent now will only make it worse. You're not in the friends category (btw, you'd be better off here. You'd have SOME chance of getting out.), you're in the CREEP ZONE! And you set off her stalker alarm by waiting by the door to strike! Double whammy! You're supposed to go down as an alpha male (prize), not as an AFC. That's what happened.

Look what you did.:down:

The sooner you leave this girl alone, the better.
 
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What she is actually saying:

"Contact me again and I'm filing a restraining order."
 
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ghostrider943 said:
"looking into each others souls on that one fateful night"
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.....did you really say that?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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With a message as direct as that you will simply have to next until she re-establishes interest if ever.
 
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ghostrider943 said:
"looking into each others souls on that one fateful night"
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Count up the times that line has worked, I'm really curious.
 
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ghostrider943 said:
She texted this: "looking into each others souls on that one fateful night" I don't know why you keep texting things like that. I have a boyfriend and I dont know you. and I don't know why you keep implying that i like you or something? yeah sorry if i sound harsh, but this needs to stop..
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What is she actually saying?
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I am psychic and I have the answer - she is saying this..

"looking into each others souls on that one fateful night" I don't know why you keep texting things like that. I have a boyfriend and I dont know you. and I don't know why you keep implying that i like you or something? yeah sorry if i sound harsh, but this needs to stop..

Get the hint kid, OR do you need a sledgehammer to bring the point home??? :rolleyes:
 
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No one is that AFC or whatever, i mean he hardly knows her, i don't think anyone would text a girl with those words, also how the hell did you get her number. I'm thinking through a friend or else she would not have said she doesn't know you.

Either way guys i think this guys a troll, like come on.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Unless it's your anniversary (that means dating her for at least a year) or you're giving a last-ditch effort to hold the relationship together, you never say "romantic" stuff like that. Besides, it just sounds way cheesy. Unless you say it really sarcastically and with a huge sh!t-eating grin on your face...which is hard to do in a text message.
 
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