Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Sorry but your explanation is bullsh1t. I think I should clear up the reasons why excessive masturbation lowers your energy.saber101 said:I recently tried this. It really works. Basically the theory is when you stop ejaculating your body will have more energy. You'll feel better and nore confident and this will help you with women. I think this hass scientific basis too. My theory: the production of sperm is physically exhausting on your body. When the production plateaus (after youve stopped ejaculating for a few days) this makes a lot of energy available to you. Also, now that you have sufficient sperm, and are physically able to reproduce, your body transmutes the energy reserved for sperm production into "actually finding a woman." However, the sperm production is the first priority since you cant reproduce w/o it. Anyways, i think ejaculation isnt that great for you. I just went 3 weeks w/o it and i felt great. I was wokring out constantly cuz i just had so much pent up energy. It was like roid rage haha. My advice: try to stop masturbating for as long as you can (minimum 2 weeks). You will feel a difference. Get over the 3 day hump and it will get exponentially easier.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Exactly. I posted my experience in the archived MB thread.CaptainJ said:Sorry but your explanation is bullsh1t. I think I should clear up the reasons why excessive masturbation lowers your energy.
When you ejaculate, either through masturbation or sex, you blow out a load of testosterone, depleting the amount in your body. Your body then immediately begins to generate more testosterone to compensate for the sudden loss.
If you masturbate excessively, your body won't be able to replenish your testosterone quickly enough.
Everyone who says stopping masturbating makes them feel magical, is simply referring to the effects of having higher levels of testosterone in their body.
We all know the effects of testosterone:
Increased libido or being horny
Higher energy
Increased intellectual ability
Easier to gain muscle mass
increased confidence
And basically all the traits associated with being a man.
It's also the reason for baldness in men and not living as long as our female counterparts.
This would explain why people who eat food high in testosterone hormones, like bull's testacles, report having higher energy levels, increased intellect etc.
By abstaining from masturbation, you're just making sure your testosterone levels are not being depleted. There's none of this sex energy cell transmutation bvllsh1t, or whatever this means, it's all down to good old testosterone.
However, this does not mean masturbation or sex is bad for you. EXCESSIVE masturbation or sex will deplete your testosterone levels until they can recover. Masturbating once in a while will in fact ENCOURAGE an increase in the amount of testosterone in the body.
Think of it like a muscle, you must "rip" the muscle in order so it grows back stronger. When you suddenly lose a lot of testosterone, your body adapts to the stress, and begins producing lots more testosterone, increasing the levels.
I recommend people who are not getting regular sex, you ration their wanks to every 4 days. You will find an increase in the qualities that testosterone produces, and it will also encourage higher levels.
So basically, it is testosterone that is providing this "magical" experience that abstaining from masturbation provides.