"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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what is sex transmutation?

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"The transmutation of sex energy calls for the exercise of willpower, to be sure, but the reward is worth the effort"

Does this accure when I stop masturbate?
 
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"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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It helps. When you stop for long enough you will achieve a state where you do not NEED a woman immediately. You are most defiantly going to be more able to control yourself if you stop.

One side effect that is always entertaining is that for the first few weeks every girl will look fine as hell.
 

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Cool, im going to test this

Best regards
Masked_Angel
 

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I recently tried this. It really works. Basically the theory is when you stop ejaculating your body will have more energy. You'll feel better and nore confident and this will help you with women. I think this hass scientific basis too. My theory: the production of sperm is physically exhausting on your body. When the production plateaus (after youve stopped ejaculating for a few days) this makes a lot of energy available to you. Also, now that you have sufficient sperm, and are physically able to reproduce, your body transmutes the energy reserved for sperm production into "actually finding a woman." However, the sperm production is the first priority since you cant reproduce w/o it. Anyways, i think ejaculation isnt that great for you. I just went 3 weeks w/o it and i felt great. I was wokring out constantly cuz i just had so much pent up energy. It was like roid rage haha. My advice: try to stop masturbating for as long as you can (minimum 2 weeks). You will feel a difference. Get over the 3 day hump and it will get exponentially easier.
 

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saber101 said:
I recently tried this. It really works. Basically the theory is when you stop ejaculating your body will have more energy. You'll feel better and nore confident and this will help you with women. I think this hass scientific basis too. My theory: the production of sperm is physically exhausting on your body. When the production plateaus (after youve stopped ejaculating for a few days) this makes a lot of energy available to you. Also, now that you have sufficient sperm, and are physically able to reproduce, your body transmutes the energy reserved for sperm production into "actually finding a woman." However, the sperm production is the first priority since you cant reproduce w/o it. Anyways, i think ejaculation isnt that great for you. I just went 3 weeks w/o it and i felt great. I was wokring out constantly cuz i just had so much pent up energy. It was like roid rage haha. My advice: try to stop masturbating for as long as you can (minimum 2 weeks). You will feel a difference. Get over the 3 day hump and it will get exponentially easier.
Sorry but your explanation is bullsh1t. I think I should clear up the reasons why excessive masturbation lowers your energy.

When you ejaculate, either through masturbation or sex, you blow out a load of testosterone, depleting the amount in your body. Your body then immediately begins to generate more testosterone to compensate for the sudden loss.

If you masturbate excessively, your body won't be able to replenish your testosterone quickly enough.

Everyone who says stopping masturbating makes them feel magical, is simply referring to the effects of having higher levels of testosterone in their body.
We all know the effects of testosterone:
Increased libido or being horny
Higher energy
Increased intellectual ability
Easier to gain muscle mass
increased confidence
And basically all the traits associated with being a man.
It's also the reason for baldness in men and not living as long as our female counterparts.

This would explain why people who eat food high in testosterone hormones, like bull's testacles, report having higher energy levels, increased intellect etc.

By abstaining from masturbation, you're just making sure your testosterone levels are not being depleted. There's none of this sex energy cell transmutation bvllsh1t, or whatever this means, it's all down to good old testosterone.

However, this does not mean masturbation or sex is bad for you. EXCESSIVE masturbation or sex will deplete your testosterone levels until they can recover. Masturbating once in a while will in fact ENCOURAGE an increase in the amount of testosterone in the body.
Think of it like a muscle, you must "rip" the muscle in order so it grows back stronger. When you suddenly lose a lot of testosterone, your body adapts to the stress, and begins producing lots more testosterone, increasing the levels.

I recommend people who are not getting regular sex, you ration their wanks to every 4 days. You will find an increase in the qualities that testosterone produces, and it will also encourage higher levels.

So basically, it is testosterone that is providing this "magical" experience that abstaining from masturbation provides.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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CaptainJ said:
Sorry but your explanation is bullsh1t. I think I should clear up the reasons why excessive masturbation lowers your energy.

When you ejaculate, either through masturbation or sex, you blow out a load of testosterone, depleting the amount in your body. Your body then immediately begins to generate more testosterone to compensate for the sudden loss.

If you masturbate excessively, your body won't be able to replenish your testosterone quickly enough.

Everyone who says stopping masturbating makes them feel magical, is simply referring to the effects of having higher levels of testosterone in their body.
We all know the effects of testosterone:
Increased libido or being horny
Higher energy
Increased intellectual ability
Easier to gain muscle mass
increased confidence
And basically all the traits associated with being a man.
It's also the reason for baldness in men and not living as long as our female counterparts.

This would explain why people who eat food high in testosterone hormones, like bull's testacles, report having higher energy levels, increased intellect etc.

By abstaining from masturbation, you're just making sure your testosterone levels are not being depleted. There's none of this sex energy cell transmutation bvllsh1t, or whatever this means, it's all down to good old testosterone.

However, this does not mean masturbation or sex is bad for you. EXCESSIVE masturbation or sex will deplete your testosterone levels until they can recover. Masturbating once in a while will in fact ENCOURAGE an increase in the amount of testosterone in the body.
Think of it like a muscle, you must "rip" the muscle in order so it grows back stronger. When you suddenly lose a lot of testosterone, your body adapts to the stress, and begins producing lots more testosterone, increasing the levels.

I recommend people who are not getting regular sex, you ration their wanks to every 4 days. You will find an increase in the qualities that testosterone produces, and it will also encourage higher levels.

So basically, it is testosterone that is providing this "magical" experience that abstaining from masturbation provides.
Exactly. I posted my experience in the archived MB thread.

Once you stop, you'll notice the difference.
 

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Sexual transmution was referred to by Earl Nightingail [the original self improvement guru-died in the 50's I think] as when a man uses the energy he used to use for sex for building a buisiness or other great works.
 
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