Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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what is sex transmutation?

Masked_angel

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"The transmutation of sex energy calls for the exercise of willpower, to be sure, but the reward is worth the effort"

Does this accure when I stop masturbate?
 
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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It helps. When you stop for long enough you will achieve a state where you do not NEED a woman immediately. You are most defiantly going to be more able to control yourself if you stop.

One side effect that is always entertaining is that for the first few weeks every girl will look fine as hell.
 

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Cool, im going to test this

Best regards
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I recently tried this. It really works. Basically the theory is when you stop ejaculating your body will have more energy. You'll feel better and nore confident and this will help you with women. I think this hass scientific basis too. My theory: the production of sperm is physically exhausting on your body. When the production plateaus (after youve stopped ejaculating for a few days) this makes a lot of energy available to you. Also, now that you have sufficient sperm, and are physically able to reproduce, your body transmutes the energy reserved for sperm production into "actually finding a woman." However, the sperm production is the first priority since you cant reproduce w/o it. Anyways, i think ejaculation isnt that great for you. I just went 3 weeks w/o it and i felt great. I was wokring out constantly cuz i just had so much pent up energy. It was like roid rage haha. My advice: try to stop masturbating for as long as you can (minimum 2 weeks). You will feel a difference. Get over the 3 day hump and it will get exponentially easier.
 

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saber101 said:
I recently tried this. It really works. Basically the theory is when you stop ejaculating your body will have more energy. You'll feel better and nore confident and this will help you with women. I think this hass scientific basis too. My theory: the production of sperm is physically exhausting on your body. When the production plateaus (after youve stopped ejaculating for a few days) this makes a lot of energy available to you. Also, now that you have sufficient sperm, and are physically able to reproduce, your body transmutes the energy reserved for sperm production into "actually finding a woman." However, the sperm production is the first priority since you cant reproduce w/o it. Anyways, i think ejaculation isnt that great for you. I just went 3 weeks w/o it and i felt great. I was wokring out constantly cuz i just had so much pent up energy. It was like roid rage haha. My advice: try to stop masturbating for as long as you can (minimum 2 weeks). You will feel a difference. Get over the 3 day hump and it will get exponentially easier.
Sorry but your explanation is bullsh1t. I think I should clear up the reasons why excessive masturbation lowers your energy.

When you ejaculate, either through masturbation or sex, you blow out a load of testosterone, depleting the amount in your body. Your body then immediately begins to generate more testosterone to compensate for the sudden loss.

If you masturbate excessively, your body won't be able to replenish your testosterone quickly enough.

Everyone who says stopping masturbating makes them feel magical, is simply referring to the effects of having higher levels of testosterone in their body.
We all know the effects of testosterone:
Increased libido or being horny
Higher energy
Increased intellectual ability
Easier to gain muscle mass
increased confidence
And basically all the traits associated with being a man.
It's also the reason for baldness in men and not living as long as our female counterparts.

This would explain why people who eat food high in testosterone hormones, like bull's testacles, report having higher energy levels, increased intellect etc.

By abstaining from masturbation, you're just making sure your testosterone levels are not being depleted. There's none of this sex energy cell transmutation bvllsh1t, or whatever this means, it's all down to good old testosterone.

However, this does not mean masturbation or sex is bad for you. EXCESSIVE masturbation or sex will deplete your testosterone levels until they can recover. Masturbating once in a while will in fact ENCOURAGE an increase in the amount of testosterone in the body.
Think of it like a muscle, you must "rip" the muscle in order so it grows back stronger. When you suddenly lose a lot of testosterone, your body adapts to the stress, and begins producing lots more testosterone, increasing the levels.

I recommend people who are not getting regular sex, you ration their wanks to every 4 days. You will find an increase in the qualities that testosterone produces, and it will also encourage higher levels.

So basically, it is testosterone that is providing this "magical" experience that abstaining from masturbation provides.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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CaptainJ said:
Sorry but your explanation is bullsh1t. I think I should clear up the reasons why excessive masturbation lowers your energy.

When you ejaculate, either through masturbation or sex, you blow out a load of testosterone, depleting the amount in your body. Your body then immediately begins to generate more testosterone to compensate for the sudden loss.

If you masturbate excessively, your body won't be able to replenish your testosterone quickly enough.

Everyone who says stopping masturbating makes them feel magical, is simply referring to the effects of having higher levels of testosterone in their body.
We all know the effects of testosterone:
Increased libido or being horny
Higher energy
Increased intellectual ability
Easier to gain muscle mass
increased confidence
And basically all the traits associated with being a man.
It's also the reason for baldness in men and not living as long as our female counterparts.

This would explain why people who eat food high in testosterone hormones, like bull's testacles, report having higher energy levels, increased intellect etc.

By abstaining from masturbation, you're just making sure your testosterone levels are not being depleted. There's none of this sex energy cell transmutation bvllsh1t, or whatever this means, it's all down to good old testosterone.

However, this does not mean masturbation or sex is bad for you. EXCESSIVE masturbation or sex will deplete your testosterone levels until they can recover. Masturbating once in a while will in fact ENCOURAGE an increase in the amount of testosterone in the body.
Think of it like a muscle, you must "rip" the muscle in order so it grows back stronger. When you suddenly lose a lot of testosterone, your body adapts to the stress, and begins producing lots more testosterone, increasing the levels.

I recommend people who are not getting regular sex, you ration their wanks to every 4 days. You will find an increase in the qualities that testosterone produces, and it will also encourage higher levels.

So basically, it is testosterone that is providing this "magical" experience that abstaining from masturbation provides.
Exactly. I posted my experience in the archived MB thread.

Once you stop, you'll notice the difference.
 

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Sexual transmution was referred to by Earl Nightingail [the original self improvement guru-died in the 50's I think] as when a man uses the energy he used to use for sex for building a buisiness or other great works.
 
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